Can you hope to understand a Scorpio's Dark Moods ?

Question

My scorpio friend is experiencing a dark period.I have not asked any questions and I give as much space as I can but I am all of a sudden paranoid that I did something. I feel shut-off and shut-out. There has been a "little" communication and it was positive but I just do not get how they are fine one day and then for two weeks they shut down. If it is me would they ever tell me ?

Answer 1

They won't tell you until they are ready to tell you, if ever.  Just be very verbal about letting them know that you are there for them and concerned for their well-being.  We love knowing that we are loved. That'll help.

Answer 2

Dude, let them be.  Don't waste your energy trying to figure out what other people feel, or why they do things just because they feel the need to "shut you out."  Go out and do other things (that are beneficial to YOU) and when he/she is ready to crawl out from under their rock, they'll talk to you about it.

If not, well then he/she can f*ck off.  At least, that's how I operate.

*Sagittarius*

Answer 3

I'm a Scorpio and I am guilty of using the silent treatment and building walls to shut somebody out if they've hurt me bad.  And that in turn makes them feel bad.  I usually do that when I feel rejected by someone.  Just let them know that you are there for them but don't try to force anything out of them.  Give them space for a few more days and check on them again.  Send flowers or something they'd like.  When they're ready, they'll come out again.  When I get upset, I usually don't want people hugging up on me but knowing they care makes me feel better though I will only come out of that mood on my own terms.  Good luck.

Answer 4

well, the last time that happended to me.....I wanted to leave my boyfriend. I do not want to make you concerned, but when a person wants to shut you out of their life...they are either not in love with you anymore, confused, upset, or depressed. You should be able to figure some of it out on your own. Do you own investigating. Ask indirect questions, talk to her friends or family. TALK TO HER......give her space, but let her know whatever is going on is concerning you.