Can you please give me a few ideas, locations, and tips to make my twenty first birthday the ultimate party?

Question

My twenty first birthday is coming up shortly and I want to have a day that is luxurious, girly, and fun. I would like to visit a spa (need locations and reviews in Spring Hill, Florida) followed by a nice lunch at a local resturaunt (need locations and reviews).

After a bit of shopping, I will come home and have a small party with my closest friends and family (with cake, soft drinks, and a catered buffet).

The plans after 5PM (I want it to be an all day event) are still up in the air. Does anyone have any ideas or tips?

Background information on me: I am not the party girl type but I certainly wouldn't mind going out to a place with an active (not wild, not mosh-ish, not hip hop-ish) atmosphere. I do want to have alcoholic beverages but I don't think I can handle straight liquor. I want the rest of the evening to be half staying in and doing something funny/fun and half going out (perhaps).

Just a side note... I like eighties music, rock, and pop.

Answer 1

have an 80s themed party, dress in spandex and big hair and shake and bake make-up. maybe finger foods and make mixed drinks like strawberry daquri or other things,

happy 21st .. hope this helps

Answer 2

Rent a limo and go for a night out on the town.. Visit places you havent visited before with your family.

or

Rent a limo and go out to a nice club (not a wild one) and have fun drinking virgin margaritas since you dont like to drink.

Happy Birthday and Hope you have fun. =)

Answer 3

you, your mom/ sister /friends/ need to take a short cruise to the bahamas perhaps... mom/daughter time!~plenty of glamour and luxury,food entertainment... and time in the spa or gym... whatever you want.. price is  so reasonable... give up the girly girl party... its a birthday... grow up!

you are going to be 21,   not 16!!!!!

Answer 4

ok, i learned how to make this killer drink.

straberry margarita mix

pina colada mix

rum

ice

just put about two cups of ice and 2oz of each of everything else. sometimes i even pour a little bit extra of the strawberry c**p. you cant even tasts the liquor. just put it in the blender. i like mine rrrreally icy.. so i put alottt of ice in it. you really cant go wrong.. its sooooo yummy

Answer 5

Well you seem to have it worked out pretty good.  Especially that you don't suffer from the delusion that to have a good time you must get smashed. I used to drive a limo in my spare time, I've seen a few 21st birthdays and friendships spoiled with too much alcohol.  I hope you have a great time.