Can you please help me out? this is getting very annoying..?

Question

So i just turned 13 a few days ago and am going into 7th grade, so is my friend Amy. Well this girl that just turned 11 and is going into 6th grade, is very obsessed with us. At first it was cute because I remember how I was at the begining of middle school. Anyways, she calls me every hour just to say hi! whats up best friend? well im not even her best friend, and i barely know her!!!!! she is always talking about how she wants a boyfriend and wants to have all abercrombie clothing, and I just tell her its not worth having a boyfriend until highschool, its fun but pointless! and to just wear clothes that fit her not just brand names! she is getting very annoying! shes always saying I WANT TO BE JUST LIKE YOU, PRETTY AND COOL!!! and i just say, nikole your fine the way you are! but she keeps pushing, and she is very very dramatic and always crying and whining about not having a boyfriend!!!! it is annoying me terribly! im nice to her because i really dont want to say anything mean, but what do i do!!!!!! she is bugging the heck out of me! would someone please help?

Answer 1

ugh i knew a girl like this, very annoying

but i just stop answering my cell phone when she called or wouldn't respond to her texts it was hard at first but then she got the idea and got friends her own age who would put up with her

i hope it works out for you

Answer 2

i had this problem 2

just let her down easily

tell her she's coming on a little 2 strong and 2 just chill a little bit. it may hurt her feelings at first but she'll be okay

Answer 3

I knew a girl like that once. She called and I said, "I'm sorry but I am not your friend and don't want to be." I gave her plenty of warnings but I had to be firm. Enough was enough. Then I wouldn't return her calls and she stopped.

Answer 4

tell her that your parents are getting mad about all the calls on your cell and tell her to stop calling.

i agree though, don't be mean. maybe just try to be really foggy and distant when she's around. hopefully she won't like it and get away from you

Answer 5

Zounds!

Glad I did all my growing up already.

Answer 6

First of all you stop being so freakin stuck up. The sun does not rise and set on you. And second, she just wants to be your friend. Tell her firmly so she doesn't make a fool of herself. Then leave her alone. Your'e probably not that cool anyway.

Answer 7

i knew a girl who was like that, but she wasn't that obsessive. she sat at my lunch table everyday, and we had assigned seats, but she didn't at her table. she was lying all the time to me and my friend. so the one day when she came to our table, i came honest with her. i said, we don't like you, we know you're lying. i don't like to be treated this way, you're just mean, so if you don't leave the table, we're going to leave. after that, we never spoke again. so you just be honest with her, and lay down the law, and if you have to be mean, then mean. and if she calls you names and what not, just ignore her. if she doesn't stop obsessing with you, then just keep telling her the truth. adventually she will go away. good luck!

Answer 8

Just be honest but dont be mean, she obviouosly has the wrong impression as to how good of friends you are and well, most people dont get the wrong impression for no reason. I dont think you should pull a line like 'i dont want to be your friend and dont talk to me anymore' i think that would be really calous and im sure you wouldnt like that done to you by someone you idolised. Just tell her that you feel uncomfortable and a bit embarrassed by some of the things she is doing and saying and that you like to be a bit more low key or how ever you are. With regards to the phone calls you could say thats a bit intense and you dont really dig the calls every 5 minutes but tell what is ok, obviously this wont work if its cool for your other friends to call every 5 minutes but not her. I think if you be open about who you are and what you like and let her just be cool and if she doesnt connect with that anymore than she'll get bored and hang with people similar to herself. Maybe she's trying harder and harder to impress you girls because she doesnt really know where the boundaries are if you dont speak up and say what you fin annoying or what your style really is. Its always good to have people on side so just be open about yourself and if youz still have things in common than id just try show her how and in what ways youz can be friends and she'll probably chill out and be alot more fun to hang around. Just treat her how you would want to be treated.  

Answer 9

hey! Ok I had the SAME problem! Just didn't answer most of her calls, and if she texted me I'd mostly give short responses. As for the boyfriends think, tell her that you think having boyfriends is overrated or something along those lines. If she still goes on and on about, when ever she talks about be like "sure". And when shes like your so pretty, just say thanks you too and drop the subject. I did this and now my friends is now still one of my good friends. Hope I helped!

Answer 10

You and Amy should talk to her sweetly and say "Look, we have been really nice to you and all, but really we have other friends our own age. You should do the same" I know its a terrible answer lol but you could also ignore her calls and block her in myspace (idk if u can do that I dont have myspace lol) hope I helped a little...

Answer 11

tell her that your not suppose to have a picture of other people on your myspace unless you have there permission and you don't have my permission, so take it off.

then stop picking up your phone. pick up once day and so..oh sorry i was busy. talk to her for a little while. then say oh my mom needs to phone call you back when she's done!  

Answer 12

omg how have you not flipped out at her!?

god. if that was me i would have punched her in the face lol im getting annoyed just reading that.

just like yell at her. be like **** OFF I DONT LIKE YOU.

very mean, i know. but she might get the point then ahah

Answer 13

Find her a new friend and slowly mesh them together.

Answer 14

first of all! the girl sounds lonely & sounds like she's tryna get in good with you & your friend so when she goes into the 6th everybody i'll think she's cool. cuz ya'll are 7th graders! seriously you've told her & told her. now just tell her how u really feel but be nice about it. & when she calls & text or whatever don't answer & delete her off of your myspace plain & simple, she might catch the hint then, not unless she's crazy! but really though just tell her if u want her to get lost.