Can you please tell me theres more to life than having a bf?

Question

hey im in h. school and obsessed w/boys.....can you convnce me theres more to life than having a boyfriend? ive never had one n feel left out.

Answer 1

there's more to life than having a partner. it's cool, especially at the beginning, but know that many problems and conflicts arise too. it's good to go through that phase too to accumulate life experience. but your personality is multilateral and..there must be other important things for you to do than get a boyfriend. enjoy life..

Answer 2

life is what you make it.

the possibilities are never ending.

Take up a hobby,

I: play bass in two bands, make computer games, write, draw,

play video games and do parkour. Surely you can find some other meaning to your life.

However its worth noting this;

The only reason life exists is to reproduce and maintain balance.

thats a wolfs goal and as much as we hide it and do other activities- our purpose is the same

Answer 3

Just a tip, always value yourself and your needs before a BF. I hate to say it though it's true, chances are your first love isn't gonna be your only. Relationships come and go, and you can't sacrifice your life for a boy, no matter how into him you are. If you do get lucky enough to keep your first, congratulations, but just remember that the only thing that will 100% be consistent in your life is yourself. I learned this the hard way, I wasted a year giving up important events and opportunities over a relationship where I had to fight to keep us together because I felt so deep for her, when in reality it was never going to work.  

Answer 4

Boys are completely overratted.

I finally have been single, cocky sounding i know, sorry.

But I've really enjoyed myself, I've been doing everything I've always wanted to!

I'm still in school too and yeah I like to sew and stuff and just odd things like that and I have so much time to just prefect myself I love it.

Well that's my opinion, hopefully it did something.

But really think, do you want to have to tell another person besides your mom where you're going and who you're with and what you're doing and so on?  I think not...

My life is all about me, and it should be

Answer 5

There is more to life than having a boyfriend.  I'm 32 and have never had one either and I'm fine.  Honest advice, get yourself a boyfriend and you'll soon realize that we're immensely overrated.

Answer 6

There is definitely more to life.  I'm 16, and have never had a bf.  Not that I wouldn't like one, but there are bigger things to be getting done.  Particularly saving up and preparing for college.  I used to focus so much of my time on trying to get a bf, but since I've stopped and have focused more on just enjoying the present and preparing for the future, I've actually started to have some guys show interest in me.  

So just relax, and be yourself.  Boys aren't THAT important, and in time they'll come around and see what a great person you are.

Answer 7

friends are more important than having a boyfriend.  

Answer 8

There is more to life than having a boyfriend , especially when you are driving a better car before they even get one.

Keep concentrating on your grades Graduate and finish college.

There is plenty of time for a boyfriend.        

Answer 9

I didn't get in a relationship until my Senior Year of high school, so I know how you feel. The truth is that it all breaks down to two things: fulfillment and validation. A boyfriend can sometimes make you feel good about yourself and, if the relationship is more serious, be a major factor in why you enjoy life. But, there are other things that serve similar purposes. I feel fulfilled when I write. I feel validated when I help one of my friends get through a problem. There is more to life than having a boyfriend, because there are countless ways to achieve the same feelings that they create.

Answer 10

The more you obsess over it the worse you'll feel, and you might come off as desperate.  I never had a boyfriend in HS and can definitely relate to the left-out feeling: your friends with them refuse your opinions at time because "you wouldn't know" or lack experience....  Come on.  You learn from their mistakes and gain knowledge of relationships just through your friendships, so when the time comes, you'll be more skilled with less pain.

Do you have friends who are in the same shoes as you?  Talking to them might make you feel better.

It's hard to believe when you're feeling like you are, but just having a boyfriend is not going to solve all your problems.  I used to fret over it and wonder why I never clicked with guys who liked me whereas my friends could date almost anyone and be happy, even.  Well, turns out I'm a L*****n, soo...  Now I don't even want one, haha.

Anyway, in summary, find some friends like you to share your woes with and try not to dwell on it.  When you stop worrying and start being yourself, you'll naturally attract guys.

Oh, and "there's more to life than having a bf."  You wanted me to tell you that, I think.

Answer 11

There definitely is more to life than having a boyfriend. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 17 and once I was in the relationship, I realized that it wasn't all it cracked up to be and broke up with him so I could focus on more important things (like martial arts, which I was heavily involved in at the time). I remember the girls in my high school who seemed to always be in relationships are now either extremely insecure or in unhappy relationships/married. It's better to be single and happy rather and paired off and miserable.  

Answer 12

Your mission, should you decide to choose it, it to become a well read, intelligent person that can speak with confidence to anybody no matter where or under what circumstances you meet them.  You have the right to plan a future with out the worry of nasty social issues like why he wants someone else.  There is a question in this section placed by an adult woman about what to do because her BF dumped her at a bus terminal at 3 am and her ID was stolen.  Sound like fun?  She has to put her life back together before she can move on.  When you get  settled in your life and have the ability to take or leave someone else and their baggage, ( we all have baggage) then you can look around and Ta-"Da he just might be standing 2 feet away at at corner stop sign.  

Get your education, get a life then the boys you are in school with will be almost  recognizable as human beings.