Can you really get over your first??

Question

Does anyone still have feelings for their 1st?

even if they are small ones that get you thinking

I do, just wondering if it is normal (its been 6 yrs)

ive moved own w/ my life but....... someone help me out here.

PLEASE STATE UR GENDER

THEN ANSWER THE Q

Answer 1

I got over her a *long* time ago, I can barely even remember her.

Answer 2

I'm a 25 y/o female. I did, but that's because we were all wrong for each other. Maybe my husband is truly my first love. I maintain that being IN love is totally different than loving someone. I don't think I've ever been in love with anyone except my hubby. I thought I was in love before, but no way. He's the best :-). Time heals all things. I used to think about stuff a lot but you move on and memories fade away and new better ones take their place.  

Answer 3

i doubt you ever do completely. its been about ten years, and na, it still hasnt gone away. it doesnt resurface, or cause problems, but in my heart, it will always be there.

oh, female...33

Answer 4

Im not sure Im qualified to answer this one as my first was my husband and I am now in the middle of a divorce, but to try, I dont think I will ever really 'get over him' 100%. I mean, he was my first  boyfriend lover, and love, husband, father of my child. I guess I just gave him too much to not expect to not beable to get it all back.

Answer 5

yeah, way over.

Answer 6

girl

I am over my first...it has been 20 years and I have finally married the love of my life. There is life after love.  

Answer 7

I could careless about about my first, I dumped her for a reason.

I don't live in the past, I care about the here and now.

Answer 8

I'm a chick....I don't have feelings still for my first. Some fond memories yes, but feelings no. I've found what I was looking for.  

Answer 9

i am a woman . i can say i dont love him anymore and i dont care like i used to but i would sad if i hear someting happened to them . but dont get me wrong it was really really though get it over him . i still have memories of us but i chose to  not dwell or leave in the past or he wouldnt be fair to my husband . we have dated for 7 years , couldnt and would never marry him causse he isnt into setteling down or having kids or getting married stage of his life( i wonder if he would ever be) so i chose to leave him behind and move on .

   ont hings that had helpd me through the separation is that i would always  think about stuffs i hated about him and he made me not see the good sides of him anymore .