Can you tell me about a time that you (or someone you know) let go of expectation and the need to control?

Question

We can fight to hold on or go with the flow. Is there a story about a time that you let go and the results were great? Or - is there a story about a time when you wouldn't let go - and the results were disastrous?

I'm doing some writing and this is the theme. Your thoughts/stories would be very helpful.

Answer 1

I suspect that every parent could or should be able to tell you a story like that.  When my children were grown. 18 in our house, there were so many times that I wanted to do it the old way. (I.e. I am older. I have more experience, It will go my way)

But I comforted myself with the fact that I had these kids for 18 years, and if I hadn't taught them most of what I had, then it was too late. I had a least had a shot. for which I was greatful

So I squeezed  my eyes shut and did not look, as they headed out into the wide world. I just smiled and waved.......