Can you tell me if I'm wrong on this?

Question

My g/f was upset with me because i wouldn't pick her up at the airport and she got a ride home with her co-worker.

Now here are the details- She flies out of town every now and then for work (visiting a site) and on this occasion she asked me to drop her off and the airport and pick her up (have done so in the past). On this occasion i had to work early so i asked her to ask my sis to drop her off and i'd pick her up on her return. She said "no its alright I'll drive with my coworker and I'll take the train from the airport and you can pick me up at the station". I told her it wasn't a big deal to ask my sis but we'd do what she wanted. So she flys home and i'm in bed catching some sleep (because of long hours at work lately) before meeting her at the station and my phone rings, i wake up and answer. Its her and she says she's at the airport and wants me to pick her up (the airport is an hour away). I ask if something is wrong (ie; train delay, or she's tired, etc). She says no she just decided she wants me to come pick her up. I get a little upset and say "No, you argued to take the train so take the train and i'll pick you up like we agreed unless something has changed."

Now she's pissed. Am i wrong?

And her co-worker thinks i'm a jerk now.

Oh and i should state that my stance on this is based on her constantly changing her mind AFTER the fact.

Answer 1

No, it sounds like she was trying to get you to dance to her tune.

Answer 2

No, it's unreasonable for her to do that.

Answer 3

No, you're not wrong.  She shouldn't expect you to suddenly drop everything at her every whim.

Answer 4

How annoying!  Kick her to the curb hehe

Answer 5

No. You have a psycho hormonal girlfriend. She wants to manipulate you because the roles of modern relationships dictate women are in charge and get whatever they want because they "deserve it".

She does not deal with reason but emotion. In her mind you were wrong to not agree to drive her in the first place. She is getting back at you. There is nothing you can do to change her mind. She is in cahoots with her friend because that's what they do. Her friend probably got a lift from her partner and that made it unfair for you to not pick her up.

Answer 6

She's manipulating you so well you can't even see it!