Can you tell when an adult is wearing a disposable diaper?

Question

I just had a surgery on my bowels.

I am 20 and nervous about wearing a diaper in public,I am afraid someone will notice.I wear them for incontinence.I wear one to bed at night, but am concerned when in public.

Answer 1

The only time some one would really notice is if they are looking. Most people don’t pay any attention. I wear 24/7, I wear like a tight stretch pants under my jeans, I have used girdles, or like underwear. Slightly baggy pants helps also, I also normally wear a light T-shirt to tuck in then another long shirt over the top so it doesn’t show off the top of the pants. Also do not be afraid of the sound, unless you are not well packed in your pants like I do normally no one hears it but you. Also do not call attention to your self, like always touching your bum, or just feeling to see if it’s noticeable, you feel way more then you can see. Be happy wearing diapers, I know its hard with the stigma but its really no one else’s business. When working on a job with a security about bring a large bag to the bathroom when changing, it maybe embarrassing but confide in a supervisor so you don’t get totally embarrasses, if they suspect you of stealing there will be allot of people looking in your bag, this way you can let that supervisor only be the one looking. Think smart and don’t look like your hiding some thing. If you would like more info on how to get by with things contact me at [e-mail]

Answer 2

I wear them every day and no one notices. Make sure you hide your changes well in a bag though.