Can you trust your wife to much? my wife does things that make me worry, should i be?

Question

she chats with men at the bar, lets men put the arms around them while out with the girls, talks to ex b/f's, ect!!!

i dont do any of these things mentioned above, out of respect for her, i trust her and i know she will not hurt me.

but should i be ok with the things she does?

Answer 1

I sure as h**l wouldn't be ok with my wife doing those things.  Totally  inappropriate.

Answer 2

she is hurting you. Have you told her these things she does bothers you? You need too tell her to cool it at the bars

Answer 3

h**l no, she's a little too friendly, my husband would kill me if i ever touched another guy, our rule is you can look but don't touch

Answer 4

Depends on your relationship with her....if she comes home to YOU every night, and your s*x life with her is grand and your intimate relationship in general isn't neglected.....then you're a bigger man than many.  

Some people are very very flirty, it's just their nature, BUT some of those people understand where their love (AND THEIR PANTS) lie....with the one they really love.  If she can do the whole flirty with the friends n guys/ex's without f*ckin them or spendin the night and having intimate relationships with them then i don't see the problem, as long as you're happy with her and there's not issue....

BUT...if things ain't good at home, or when problems arise and she goes searchin for those ex's and buddies....then i think it's time you start considering a divorce...cause it'd be a LOST cause....and your trust is just getting p*ssed on.

Answer 5

If you know she will not hurt you....you need to mention that her actions are hurting you. That way she will know how you feel and she can stop.

She might be innocent of everything but ignorance. If she doesn't stop when you tell her then you have a problem.

Answer 6

this isn't really the way a happily married woman behaves. if it worries u, u need to confront it, tell her how u feel. its hard to trust when u see things like this.

Answer 7

she your wife ..she's all ready hurting you .. dont be blind.. tell her your feelings .. stop being a wussie  and tell your  

Answer 8

She doesn't respect you or the marriage. Her actions are totally out of line and you should not tolerate them.

If she is ok being that friendly with guys it isn't much of a step for her to cheat.

Tell her it bothers you and ask her to stop or you will file for divorce.  

Answer 9

Her behavior is very inappropriate for a married woman.  You're obviously not okay with it so why don't you let her know how you feel?  If she respects you, she won't do things that make you uncomfortable.

Answer 10

Honey?

Answer 11

you can trust her to much if you dont q's her then she can think she can do anything she wants