Cancers please help....?

Question

if you are a cancer male, and you hurt a girl you care about, and she hurts you back purposefully......

what can be done to make sure that you know the girl still cares? especially if they are being completely avoidant and withdrawn

Answer 1

Cancer men and women tend to withhold and crawl into a cave to pity themselves. They also like to hold out to make the other person come crawling back to them. If you were in the wrong then you can apologize once and leave him/her the space. They will come back in due time if it wasn't a huge problem.

Answer 2

I'm a Cancer, and I can tell you that if I have withdrawn, there is no getting back in touch with me until I am good and ready to talk. If he hurt you unintentionally and you struck back to hurt him intentionally, I think that was a big mistake on your part. The thing with Libra and Cancer is that they will either be completely excellent for each other or they will be toxic for each other. Sounds like if you are easily wounded and feel the need to strike back, your relationship is of the toxic variety. Cancer and Libra really have too little in common for lasting harmony. Both want to be in control,  and neither wants to listen to reason.  I say give it time. Apologize sincerely, tell him you're still there, but let him come back in his own time in his own way. No games in the future if there is any hope of making this last.

Answer 3

Sorry, but mind to state her sign as well?