Cannot stand friend's friend? ?

Question

My best friend's friend is so annoying. She was one of my best friend's college roommates for a year and because of this whenever all our close college group of friends gets together she gets invited. However, I can't stand her the entire weekend. She is obnoxious and annoying and drives me insane. I have tried multiple times in the past to get along with her, but I can never see anything to like about her. We just don't click. My college girls are coming in a few weeks to visit (and stay with me) and she has basically been invited to come visit as well, by my best friend. I have never voiced how much I can't stand her to anyone.. should I? There are a bunch of us girls and she always seems to be on the outskirts - but she calls us her "bffs" but yet she never talks to any of us (unless facebook counts.) Should I tell some of my girls and get their opinion on it? Or just suck it up forever?

Thanks so much!!!

Answer 1

Go in her shoes and see how she enjoys things and maybe you'll enjoy them too,but if that doesn't work then I would tell your friends and your best friend about it cuz your just torturing yourself for no reason

Answer 2

i would tell your best friend how you feel and maybe even some of the other girls. i have the same problem, but im forced to deal with her because i have classes with her, and because my best friend is friends with her and feels sorry for her. so i would talk to your friends and say that you dont always like her being every were when you hang out. if that doesnt work, i guess just be kind while shes around. just because shes there does not mean you have to like her.  

Answer 3

tell your real friends they will understand how you feel if they are your true friends. you cant not say anything or else she will keep coming along since your best friend thinks u two get along. good luck:)

Answer 4

Tell her that she's annoying and

whatever else it is you need to say. You are in college

it's time to start acting like an adult. Say what's on your mind.

It's not good to keep things bottled up, because one day you are going to be too through with her and something bad is going to happen.

Answer 5

I understand.  I have trouble with my sister in law and my two daughter in laws.  You say she never talks to anyone.  Could be she has a serious hearing problem.  Also if she does that would make it extremely hard to get along with people because they don't know how to answer or when to say something.  They don't talk because if they do, they'll be looked upon as being rude, but often they don't want to say they have this problem because they are embarrassed about it and know people won't understand.

If this is the case, you need to talk to her kindly when no one is around and talk slowly and clearly and louder than you would otherwise.  Hope you find out what's eating her.  God bless you.

Answer 6

i think that you should voice ur opinion! i mean after all no one likes to hang with some one they don't like!! i say that you should be more out spoken and tell how you really feel, i mean i didn't and now i have screwed up big tim and my best guy friend isn't even answering my emails!! so do what you want but i say go for it, voice your opinion!!

pray about it first and get the right words to say so you don't hurt any one's feelings!

Good Luck