Cant get rid of him!?

Question

i liked my friend but i wanted 2 go out with him but now i dont and he gets all sad and says he will kill himself... i am 13 and not allowed 2 date but when i can date i will hav 2 go out with him! other girls like him y cant he just go out with them?

Answer 1

Don't go out with a guy just because he's sad that you're not going out with him. He obviously has problems that won't be solved by you simply going out with him.

Answer 2

well, find out who like him make that person you new bff and slow by hang out all 3 of you guys help her make her move to get him off your back.ask him question about what type of gril he like and tell her every thing so she dose it and give time and he like her more than you.

Answer 3

when you get old enough you dont have to be with him.

you might not even knoe him then

good luck and just keep tellin him your to young to date

Answer 4

If he is threatening to kill himself, he is not the kind of person you need to be hanging with.  Because I am a 'court-mandated reporter', I would have no choce but to call 911 and get him into the care system. (a CMR is a person that MUST report any threat of harmong oneself or someone else, also any felony-classed crimes taht are witnessed).  Your best bet is to tell your parent(s) if you trust them with this, and have them makethe call.  Otherwise, it is up to you to get him help.  He may hate you for doing it now, and you will probably feel lousy about it (oh man is that ever true!), but if you save his life by this...well..there is no greater deed tha you could ever do to top saving a life.  good luck