Capricorn Man: The most challenging sign I've ever been with!! Help!!

Question

Please explain Capricorn men when they are in a relationship. Been with mine 3 1/2 years and when he is having family or job issues he gets really moody (very harsh) and takes it out on me. When he is like that he sometimes tells me he doesn't want to be in a relationship because he can't handle everything at once. ...he says he feels like a loser and I deserve better. However, after a few days or a week he snaps out of it and is the same sweet caring person. The last month is was kind of like that so I've been leaving him alone and on Friday night (probably wanted to see if I was going out,which I NEVER do) he calls me up to tell me he's been thinking about me. I try not to keep him on the phone long and when I hung up today I told him that we will talk later in the week and he said, "hopefully before than." Is this a typical pattern for Cappy men? When others things are bugging them do they take it out on the one they love? What also affects their moods?? Does it matter if they are a Dec or Jan Cappy?? Thanks in advance for any feedback I will receive!!!

Answer 1

Capricorns have a reputation for being over-pessimistic and over-controlling. If you find each other not compatible, perhaps it might be time to change partners in your relationship. Capricorns are more to hard work, less to a love life.

Answer 2

Thats normal. Im a capricorn (girl not guy) and i do the same thing to my boyfriend. I dont care what mr smarty pants above says, its not a bi-polar thing because im the same exact way and doctor says my only problem is my bad temper. Capricorns are very head strong and goal oriented. We want to succeed and are driven to do so. When we feel like were failing then we feel worthless. We usually just want to crawl in a hole and die when we reach a point where it feels like we cant handle everything that weve taken on. At least thats how it is with me and other capricorns I know. Some of us like to have things our way so when things dont turn out the way we want we get crabby.  Here is a link that gives a little more info about Capricorns and their ways: http://www.astrology-online.com/capricrn...    

I hope it helps

Answer 3

Signs are not challenging; people are.  Stop thinking of him in terms of an artificial label, and start dealing with him as a fellow human being like yourself.  You might still decide he's unsuitable; but let him stand or fall on his own merits rather than some superstitious mumbo-jumbo.

Frankly, it sounds like he might have bipolar or borderline personality disorder.  There's no astrological cause or solution for this.

Answer 4

Ah, my favorite subject: the Capricorn male!  I'm married to a Capricorn, so I will try to shed some lightt onwhat it is to be in a relationship with this wonderfully challenging, amazingly brilliant, frustrating, richly sentimental creature.

Family is their life. They value their family above everything else, especially mom. Don't ever insult his mother, even if it is blatantly obvious she is out of line or a pill in general. I found this out the hard way. ;)  Capricorn men are very disciplined when it comes to work.  They work to live, not live to work, although some people will swear the contrary is true. Their work provides them with the financial security they so desperately need in order to function properly, so they take their work very seriously.  When problems with work arise, it consumes them. They pride themselves on being able to handle anything that comes their way, although not without stress.  If he's taking it out on you, it isn't fair. It's time you give him a reality check when that happens.  Be supportive, tell him that while you understand he's stressed, and while you will be there for him if he needs to vent, you don't appreciate his stress with work being thrown in your direction.  Cappy can become pretty self involved at times, especially when stressed.  Family spells stability for him too, so if there are issues that are making him feel uncomfortable, he gets insecure.  Cappy likes to be all things to all people. If he's bogged down with stress at work and family, then he probably feels like he has nothing left for you. He will beat himself up. Cappy's worst critic is himself.  As successful as my husband is in his career and in our marriage, he will often times beat himself up. They hold themselves to extremely high standards, but are insecure---chances are your Cappy is looking for reassurance from you that he IS good enough and NOT a loser.  If a Cappy calls to tell you he's been thinking of you, it's the truth. When a Cappy is into you he is very attentive.  I'm curious as to why there is no commitment after 3.5 years of dating? I know it's none of my business, but usually the longer a Cappy takes to make a commitment and progress the relationship it gets less likely that he will do so.  When they're in love they put that relationship above work, and even above their family---you are their number one priority. Something to think about.  Don't put up with any form of harshness and certainly don't let him roll all over you.  Cappy is a cardinal sign and will get carried away with controlling every aspect of the relationship if there isn't a strong woman on the other end with clear boundaries and a strong sense of what she wants for herself.  Perhaps it's time to find out where the relationship is headed. Your trying not to keep him on the phone too long even when you have the desire to talk isn't fair to you.  What about your needs and wants? Is he taking them into consideration, or is it all about him all of the time?  When a Cappy is in love, they are doting and it is all about pleasing their woman. They're demonstrative, affectionate, attentive, dependable, steady, and always there for you. This guy doesn't seem to be readily available unless he has a break in his own life.  I'd have a talk with him. Good luck to you, hope this helped a little.

Answer 5

there's no need to live like that; have some dignity and lv the man or complain about it (and stay mad) until he learns or until u guys can learn 2 communicate... trust me if u shoot 4 ur ideal and get ppl 2 treat u the way u r supposed 2 b treated... all will b well

this guy in particular sounds like a waste of time... a waste of time that does like you though to be completely honest but totally immature (totally wasting your time... which believe me is NOT worth it)