I have a dilemma....we are purchasing a car for our daughter. Her father and I are not married. My husband and I are putting $1,700 in for her car. Her father and stepmother are putting in $1,000 for her car. My daughter is using $400 of her own money towards the car. My parents are also putting in around $400 towards the car.
To make a long story short...my daughter's father and stepmother are getting the car from a dealer "friend" of theirs. They insisted on paying for the car with their money and we pay them back. I however am worried about the title work. They have already in the past tried to put stipulations on our daughter about sharing a vehicle with them in the past and I told them that is not going to work because she is going to need her own transportation to get back and forth to work. I am worried they are going to try to put these same stipulations on her once they purchase the vehicle up front.
We don't have the $1,700 this week, but they are insistent that we need to purchase this car because someone else is looking at it. It is a good deal and I don't want to pass it up, but I also want to protect my daughter's best interest because she too is putting money in towards her car that she earned babysitting over the years and has saved her money for this purpose. Does anyone have any suggestions what I can do without seeming too rude?
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