Caring a lot to the scorpio guy makes him feel uncomfort?? ?

Question

im a libra gal who happened 2 closed with ths scorps guy...we're just casual friends but he knows tht i like him so much (but it happened tht he said he cant replace yet his past frm his mind,coz she was d**n perfect according 2 him).i nvr say it abt my feeling directly but i show with my actions quiet a lot. i really love to take care of him,i adjust myself also towards him (u guys must know hows the typical traits of scorps people)...first,its seems hard 2 understand,but now i feel i can tolerate it already..nowdays thngs looks a lil bit weird,when i act like i used 2 b which is caring 2 him,he said he doesnt feel comfort with it...yes lately even i still care him but it happened like i almost get tired with it already n i start reduced my attention,lol...n by tht time,he did certain ways(according 2 my instinct)2 attract my attention,he even feel jealous n try 2 make me jealous in certain ways...its confusing,actually hows the good way 2 take care of them??

yesterday he sent 1 greeting cards,here's the description of the card: a notebook full with words "hate hate hate" everywhere,but in the middle of tht notebook,got a tearing part which happened like a hole over there,in tht hole there's a picture of red heart over there....

he sent it 2 me without any words....but 2day when i show my attention 2ward sms,he feel irritating with it,he asking me to treat me like other friends tht i have...so,actually wht ths guy wants,hhehehe...any good interpretation 2wards my sharing here

Answer 1

Yes. I think he is playing games with your heart. If you pay attention to him it annoys him. If you don't he gets jealous and tries to make you jealous. Does this sound like a healthy relationship to you? It seems he will act contrary to whatever you do. Perhaps you should blow him off for a week or two and see what he does. That's right just stay away from him for awhile and see how he likes being ignored. I'd be interested to see how he reacts. I am afraid you may be throwing your pearls before swine. Oh yes, and if the other girl was so perfect, then where is she now? Probably as far away from him as she can get.  

Answer 2

grt to hear a libra doing everything just to win a scorpion heart..hey gal..u surely will and it seems dat he has something special for u in his heart as reflected by that greeting...look..scorps are really scared of committment and love sharing and they seems even more hard when betrayed in the past....Still gal it seems dat u have moved a long way towards winning his heart..still some steps more to go and he is all yours ....ice is just to break..HE IS SURELY SCARED OF MAKING NEW RELATION SECOND TIME..dats why he is behaving so much irritated and practical towards ur care..but beneath he loves that but his mind doesn't allow or u can say arrested his heart...bail his heart out and judging bu ur ways it seems dat u already know the perfect way to approach him.....