Cast a love spell....can't get him out of love with me. what do i DO!?

Question

Well, at work, I had a crush on a man (yes, childish, i know!). I was helplessly in love, so on the internet, I looked up love spells. I'm not Wiccan, nor have I ever been. So I cast the spell, but now the man is obsessing over me, and won't leave me alone. He is starting to pretty much stalk me! I tried "out of love" potions, but nothing works! I'm getting pretty scared, so does anyone have any suggestions? Thanks!

Answer 1

Honey, #1 - you got what you asked for, and now you are complaining about it?  Think about that.

There is a reason for that ol' cliche, "Be careful what you wish for"!!!

#2 - Being Wiccan is not a requirement to work magic.  There are witches of many different cultures and faiths.  Wicca is a religion about a relationship with the gods and attuning to nature and the natural cycles of the year - it is NOT about casting spells to get everything one desires in life.

Despite all the warnings we Wiccans and witches give about meddling with magic and directing a love spell at a particular person....  sigh....  do people think we say this stuff just for fun?  No!  We know what can happen and we warn people against casting such spells so that they don't end up in situations like this!  

And of course, common sense didn't tell you to keep a record of the spell you used?  So you went and got yourself in a big mess and now you want help cleaning it up.  

I'm sorry dear, but you must take responsibility for your own actions and accept the consequences of those actions.  

I hope you have learned your lesson and will be more responsible in the future.

Edit:  So that's a no?  You haven't learned a lesson from the actions YOU chose to take?  

Good luck to you.

Added:  Wow.  "Shut up"?  To The Passenger?  Who gave you good advice?  And then you say you don't need help from a complete stranger?  Well, what did you expect when you posted this question here?

FYI - the last gal I personally knew who cast such a spell and ended up with an obsessive stalker on her hands spent years dealing with the courts and law enforcement trying to get the guy out of her life for good.  The Passenger is right about that, you may also end up having to get the authorities involved.  Since your original spell backfired on you, adding more magic to the situation to try to resolve it could make it even worse.  I sincerely hope it doesn't come to either point and wears out on its own.  Believe it or not, even though you made a mistake (infatuation with someone has made each of us do something silly at one time or another), I don't wish you to have to pay for it for the rest of your life.  

Taking out your anger with yourself on actual responsible witches though, isn't helping you any.  I suggest reading up on the Law of Return.

http://wicca.timerift.net/three.shtml

Answer 2

you must f**t at a high speed 3 whole mini pumpkins outta your butt, at a running goose. and hit the Goose. then place the goose and pumpkins somewhere he will find it. if he eats it your troubles are over

Answer 3

Well the only thing I can tell you is suck it up and ride it out.  You got what you asked for.  That is the reason most of us constantly say no love spells.

Don't get pissy with people for telling you the truth.

Answer 4

go back to the beginning then remove it by prayer.

Answer 5

See what happens when you dabble with something you don't understand???

LIVE WITH IT!!!

Edit: you cast the love spell, you have to let it finish. Simple as that. No reversals!!!!!!

Answer 6

Oh boy.   There is really no 'undo' spell for anything.  Once magic is set in motion, it stays in motion (just like an object.)  You can't simply take it back or reverse it.  

What you can do though, is redirect it.  Cast your circle, call your Deity, (you will need the help.)  Ask this Immortal to take your spell, make it right and make it well.  Ask for the Immortal to guide the man and protect him from harm (i.e. your first spell.)  Call your cast energy back to you, (the first spell.)   Repeat the spell you did in the first place, in the presence of this Deity, and seal it from doing harm to human, beast, or weather.  

This will not undo your spell, but can change and redirect it so that it can only work within the clauses you have placed to harm none and be guided by an Immortal.

It's not much and definitely not a sure thing, but it's the best I can think of.  Crystal is right on the money by the way.  You may just have to live with your mistake.

Answer 7

What Kind Of Spell Was It?

What did you use in The Spell?

Answer 8

Just tell him you're not interested.

Magic doesn't exist.

Answer 9

What exactly did you do  in the spell?Can you post it please?

I was told that the love spell has to run its course ...I would try a banishing spell to make him stop and protective spells around you and your house.However first I would go to the police, spells are a last resort.Stalking is illegal and if you have a good evidence that he is then let them know right away.Always do the natural thing before the magical one.

I would also suggest you got to a group on yahoo or somewhere else to receive more information from a more experienced person.

EDIT: I don't know much about Muslim mysticism, in fact I know diddly squat.I would suggest you go to that same site and post this same question, stating you goth the spell from that location.If you aren't sure what site it was, then try and look up Muslim mysticism and what can be used to help.I would still suggest using a protection spell.

EDIT Again: Why are pissed at Crystal Dolphin?Because she is right and telling you something you don't want to hear?Very childish indeed...

Answer 10

That is why you people still live in huts!

Answer 11

one word allah

nuff said

Answer 12

I know this sounds stupid BUT it works.  Write the persons name on a piece of paper & put it in a baggie with water, put it in the freezer.  Once it is frozen, wrap the paer ice cube in foil & make sure you put it as far back and out of the way as possible then SLAM the door and say with conviction, "whatevertheir name is, CHILL OUT!"  Don't let it thaw out or open it.  It worked like a charm for me.  I am not sure how it will work because you DID cast a spell.  But it is worth a try.

Answer 13

First off, I agree with everything Crystal Dolphin said.

Why did you come here and ask for advice if you don't want to listen to anything people who actually know what they're talking about have to say? That just shows you don't want to take responsibility for anything you do.

Here's my advice based on different possibilities of what happened since you clearly don't want to actually help yourself and are just looking for quick fixes.

1. Accept that this wasn't magic and just a coincidence (good chance that's true since if you actually knew what you were doing you'd be able to fix this yourself). Coincidences don't need antidotes.

2. Do what you'd normally do if a man was obsessing over you. Tell him you aren't interested. Be firm. Do that anyway. Surely you know how to tell a man to get lost. If he takes it to a  stalker level get the authorities involved.

3. If you really can't accept any responsibility for your actions then go back to the same site and ask them for help. At least they can probably figure out what the heck you did.  

And I don't know what Wicca has to do with any of this. Wicca is a religion. Witchcraft is a practice. The two aren't synonymous.

Edit - well you are so very personable, I can see why he likes you. And I did give you advice. You want something different? Here, try this -

Tonight before you go to bed, look in the mirror and say "Let X (whatever his name is) see me as I truly am." Know that this will work and clearly visualize this happening.

I promise he'll want nothing more to do with you.

Answer 14

Be careful what you wish for, and be grateful you didn't do a binding spell.  Go to where you found the original spell and look for a spell breaker.

Answer 15

Here's the perfect spell to distance the guy from you. You must have full belief that it WILL work for you. Say these words with meaning:

Cupid, open up his eyes

Show him my deceit and lies.

I am shallow, I am crass,

Come and save my sorry a**!

Repeat as often as necessary, preferably in his presence.

It pays to be humble to the gods and to those you are asking for help.

Answer 16

Rub the holy islamic onion garlic powder on your hind.  After 2 hours of rubbing, add pure honey to the mixture to give it some zest.  Once the honey and onion garlic powder are mixed in perfect harmony, go to work flaunting a thong bikini and strut the halls.  Your obsessor will soon become intoxicated with the nauseating stench and quit his job, leaving you free.

This is not a potion, rather, a sacred Muslim ritual, proven to work at its finest in the most desperate of situations throughout history.  3:15 Osaam in the Quran explains such situation.

Answer 17

First off a love potion will only make things worst... And lets face a few facts you brought this down on yourself... And now you put yourself in a position no only to be stalked but harmed..... I am not sure why people committ such stupid acts... But you created a mess that is way beyond your ability to control............ Yes there are a few things that you can do but I refuse to put that information out over the net.... So good luck in solving this problem..............