Casual s*x and body issue?

Question

First off I'm an uncircumcised guy and I've heard many girls negatively react or talk about an uncircumcised p***s in a negative sense (never directly at me as they didn't know I was uncircumcised). My question was if you came across an uncircumcised guy when you guys were in the moment would you turn him down or would you fool around with him and just never do it again. I like this girl and we were talking about circumcision one day as a group of which she said uncut men are gross. She then asked me if I was circumcised I told her I was and then she said that I'd better be.

I just turned 18 and I don't have to much experience but I'm pretty sure she wants to sleep with me and I want to sleep with her I just don't know if I should because I'm uncircumcised. While she is a really cool girl I can totally see her flipping out, getting up and walking out and then telling all her friends about my circumcision status. Should I advance the relationship or not? Please be brutally honest

Answer 1

She is simply uneducated about an uncircumsized person being "nasty". It does require more attention for cleaning purposes but this is all. I wouldn't risk my reputation by telling her about your situation. Find someone who likes you for who you are and your situation won't be a problem to them.

Until she learns the true facts she won't understand and may as you said "flip out" if told and end up telling everyone.

Answer 2

Brutal honesty you say.... alcohol!  If you guys have already fooled around and it seems like you have, bringing alcohol into it isn't a super bad thing.  It will loosen the mood and make her less tense about it. It's probably still a good idea to bring it up(as last minute as possible before the pants come off).  I would say not to bring it up and let the alcohol do it's job, but given that you lied to her, it's probably not a good idea to let her find out about it herself.  If alcohol is not an option, then you f*cked up by lying to her man!  You are gonna have to approach her with all of the sensitive, "I am a good guy" BS and "I really like you and I was nervous so I didn't know how to handle that situation because it came out of nowhere.  I am so sorry, but I hope you can understand why I wanted to prepare for the conversation because of your feelings on it, and then was not the right time, so I didn't want to lie, although I had to in order to delay the truth to an appropriate point where I felt comfortable enough to talk about it."  Something like that...

Answer 3

People are of the misunderstanding that an 'uncut' p***s is more unclean than a 'cut' one. The fact is that there is very little to support this idea. A 'cut' p***s can be just unclean just like an 'uncut' one can be. The cleanliness is completely up to the owner of the organ. If I were you I would talk to the girl and tell her that you are not circumcised. If this helps compare it to a woman having a part of her clitoris removed. This would cause her to have less feeling in that area just as it does when a man has essential skin removed. Assure her that you are clean and are very careful in the care of your body. If she is still uncomfortable suggest that she look at some pictures of an uncirc'ed p***s to see what it looks like and what to expect with you. If she really cares for you more than just for s*x she will understand and this will be one of many experiences that you guys will learn and grow from. And don't forget to use protection! Good luck!