Catching a cheating wife?

Question

I hope I'm wrong, I think my brother's wife is cheating on him. I can just sense it. She goes for grocery shopping's comes home with out anything after 5hrs or so and she is so happy and smiley when she gets home. How can I bring this to his attention with out being blamed as a destroyer of the marriage. Is there a GPS tracking device that can be installed on her vehicle?

thanks

Answer 1

as a bother you can not "Mind your own business..." Higher a pi, or advise the guy to get one.....you can not always be the one to bring a situation to light.....

Answer 2

Its none of your business. What if your wrong and you end up ruining his marriage? Take care of your own life, let him worry about his.  

Answer 3

Mind your own business.

Answer 4

I think that you should just leave it alone. This is your brothers problem and not yours. Because you do not want to be the one that is involved in possibly destroying a marriage.

Answer 5

Not sure about the availability of a GPS tracking device but there are ways to figure out what she's up to.

I would consider using an online detective service. I was amazed to find out the amount of information that can be found on a person using these services. Here's a site that has evaluated several ...

http://askfirstmarketing.com/consumer-gu...

I wish someone had cared enough to clue me in when my wife was running around but it turned out I was the last to know. Made me look like an idiot. Your brother is lucky you care about him this much.

Good Luck,

Len

Answer 6

Stay out of it.  This has nothing to do with you.  If you are wrong you are going to ruin the relationship you have with you brother.  You don't have any proof or anything concrete.  You really are just speculating.

Answer 7

People on here are telling you to mind your own business,don't do that,always back your brothers play,if it were a friend I would also tell you to mind your own business,but never with your brother.Stay out of the spy game and tell your brother how you feel,then let him call his own plays and you be there for him emotionally.

Answer 8

Yes there are, also, for $250 have a PI follow her around for 2 days

Answer 9

leave her alone....   wives..   man, wives..   they can cheat alreight...  and your right... if you find them laughing by themselves.. or constantly day dreaming...   but you won't prove it.. they will deny, deny, deny....   they'll make you think your nuts.. when all along they are getting serviced by the guy who she probably works with or even in your neihborhood.  

Answer 10

no, dont mind your own business, thats your brother!! And its good you watch out for him, HOWEVER, its not your job to track her.

You need to speak to him about it , ...and just tell him you're concerned, then ask him if he wants your help, if not, then he may already have an idea but may be too ashamed to talk to you or anyone.But he should be the one to ask you for your help....(if he doesnt want to know, or just doesnt care, then its his problem, and you'll just have to let it go.   So talk to your brother. Unless, you see her for yourself cheating, then you cant accuse or do anything. She'll get whats comming to her if she is cheating.

Answer 11

shes probably cheating, but will never admit it, your brother needs to see what u see.....dont stay out of it, hes your brother.

Answer 12

cheating is disgusting and one of lifes most horrid things dont know about gps but you should do all you can to out her if she is cheating as no one deserves that level of heartache and pain knowing their loved one? has been having the ultimate loving act with another while still with you

Answer 13

Mind your own business. You could lose your brother over this. If she is cheating, he knows it or feels it. Maybe he just hasn't accepted it yet. If you get involved and cause a problem for them--but things work out for them in the end--you may be seen as the trouble maker and lose your brother. Just be ready to be there if your brother needs your emotional support. Don't put her down--just listen. People need friends to listen more than to offer advice.  Be supportive of choices your brother makes. He is an adult, so treat him as such. If she is cheating, she will be caught with or without your help.

It also sounds like you resent her for some reason--not because you think she is cheating. I have spent many hours in a store and gone home with nothing--and I never cheated. Maybe she just needs to get away alone for some reason--which is none of your business.

Maybe she is the kind of person who loves her husband so much that she IS happy when she gets home and sees him. Obviously you haven't known women who are happy to be home with their husbands. There really are women like that. Maybe your brother is the kind of guy that she is very happy to see when she gets home.

Leave them alone. I can hardly believe you would even consider a GPS to spy on her. I hope you don't get married because you would question every little move your wife made. Or if you had a wife who cheated, don't be suspicious of everyone else. Maybe you are a cheater, so you think others are cheaters. I think you are just a suspicious trouble maker. Leave them alone.

Answer 14

I think you should follow her and see what she gets up to and where she goes.  No need to tell your brother in case it isn't true.  If it isn't it could lead to problems later on.  Also, I must admit it weird to go grocery shopping and come back with hardly nothing as i can come back with heaps in only an hour.  Another reason could be she is gambling...

Answer 15

I think you should stay out of it and let him figure this one out on his own. Of course if it was me I would find out when she is leaving the house and try to follow her without her knowing and take my video camera or camera with me for evidence. You may want to just drop hints over time. He is either really naive or knows or suspects, but just doesn't want to say anything.  

Answer 16

I would let your brother figure it out.  But, their is a box you can put on a car and track it on a computer.  It will tell you when the car is running, how many miles it's gone,how long it was stopped/off.

Answer 17

  If you live in the states the is  " Low Jack " and you can follow the car on your computer. Also have him check the computer to see if he is e-mailing her as well. General Moters also has a GPS system as well.Called something  _ _ _ _  Star.

Answer 18

lol.

I think you should chill for a second there.

Your not POSITIVE thats shes cheating, right?

No need to bring up something that aint true,

when your sure about it,

you should bring it up to your brothers attention.