Caught my Aunt and Father making sexual advances?

Question

This is a really odd story...

To start off-

I'm 23 years old. My dad is 46 (divorced) and my Aunt Elena is 43 (also divorced), I believe. They are NOT related. I'm currently on a 'vacation' in Memphis to see my family. We're all staying in my Aunt Elena's mansion. Well the 2 were alone at the house one evening when I had walked into the house with a key from the local Starbucks with a guy I met at the airport. Anyway, I walked upstairs to check in with them. When I walked in, I saw my aunt sitting awfully close on the bed as a p**n played on the TV...my aunt acts so very young. She's skinny, blonde, and pretty much wild. I wasn't exactly in the room yet. The door was cracked and I was peering in (please don't judge me, I'm no pervert). My dad turned aunt towards him and gave her a peck on the lips. Aunt Elena returned the kiss, but it was more make-out-ish. Dad began taking his shirt off, as did Aunt Elena. With that, I shouted 'stop!' and then ran downstairs.

I always knew that it was some sort of connection between the two. They look perfect together.

I left the house and I've been staying with the guy I met ever since. The way I just ran out makes me feel like a huge baby. They both have been blowing up my cell, but I just say I don't want to talk about it and that maybe I'll be back home soon.

What should I do about the situation? They may be dating...

Answer 1

That is really messed up!!  But, they are not related by blood so technically, it is not illegal.  It is kind of like in the movie, Legends of the Fall, when the lead actress goes for the other brother when she thinks that the one that she was originally with was not coming back.  

Answer 2

You are 23 years old, your not exactly a "child" anymore so don't act like one.  Your dad is a grown man, he can do what he wants, who he wants, when he wants.....you need to mind your own business.  Whats this to you anyways?  Stay out of this, this is between the two of them.  They will have to make their own mistakes and learn from them.  Just concentrate on your own life.

Answer 3

Situation is false, Starbucks guys are g*y.

Answer 4

You are right...that's very immature of your mum. Tell her to remember that "2 wrongs don't make a 'right'" and all that jazz.

Answer your cellphone and remember THEY are the ones who have to "FACE" up to you---not the other way around.  

With all the privilege, it sounds like they're lacking in good sence!  You seem to possess more than they do.  Don't you have a relative (with good sence) to stay with?--while the 'cheaters' get themselves straightened out?  Moving in with the guy you BARELY know...isn't your solution...a good relative who CARES for you might be.  

Going "back home soon"...might not be a bad idea...having them know that you saw them and reacted how you did, might just be all was needed for them to realize their world includes YOU.  Give them a chance for 'redemption'.  You might need it someday from someone else.  

Answer 5

scald ur eyes with burning water!! U JUST WITNESSED AN UNHOLY EVENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

Answer 6

Who are you to get upset when you just shacked up with a guy you met at the air port?

I think it is sad they were watching p**n together,butworse ,they are hiding their affection for one another because they knew how you'd react.

You need to call your Dad and talk to him.

You need to go home hon.

Answer 7

Well first off they are family and your close relations and should have mentioned it to you. It must be hard seeing something like that. I would be petrified. Although you think you didn't do the right thing, there are not many things you could do. You just happened to be there and awkward moments come. You may want to hold off on talking about it until the storm blows over. I wish you the best in the situation.

Answer 8

You just answered the question, not related and both divorced. Whats wrong is that they should of went elsewhere to do whst they wanted to do. I think u have the right to ask and find out. If its yes, there is nothing you can do but try to accept it

Answer 9

stop acting like a baby !!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

You're upset that your dad divorced your mom and started dating her sister, correct?  Go home, talk it out with them, let them know what you are feeling and your concerns about them betraying your mother.

Answer 11

Why would it be SO bad for them to be together?

If they're not related and you are the only connection, what's the problem?  They're both adults.

Why don't you act like one and go back there and talk to them.  Maybe there has always been a connection and now that they are both available they can start something.

Am I missing the problem here?

Answer 12

Your dad is single and an adult. whats the problem? Besides you went to stay with some guy you just met at the airport. At least your dad is with someone he actually knows. Maybe you need to clean your own house before you judge how dirty your dads house is. Plus you probably kept him from getting some off your aunt. that sucked I am sure

Answer 13

Oh I am so sorry you had to experience that! It definetley puts you in an uncomfortable position. Try talking to them, one on one maybe and just tell them how you feel. Perhaps you feel ignored and disrespected, as well as uninformed. Does your mom know about this?

Everyone has tough situations. This one is for sure one of them. Hang in there, God bless!

best of luck,

swim chick

Answer 14

They are adults, not related.....give them some space.  It is hard to have to live your life around what your grown children want, understandably people have to gear their relationships sometimes around their minor children's emotional needs but not adult children.  Let them be and make amends.  They have lives too!

Answer 15

You said it yourself , they are not blood related , so what is the harm . They are both divorced according to what you said so there is no foul . No foul , no harm , really none of your business , they deserve a life too without checking with you .

Answer 16

ur acting like a baby.there grown ups