Caught on facebook insulting their affair!?

Question

ok, i uploaded pics of myself on facebook n my friend complimented my pic but mixed it in with an insult of my exs new girlfriend (who he cheated on me with!)

anywhoo it was basically some light hearted humour on the lines of:

calling her a s***k! n the b word!! lol

anyways which i believe she is for being a home wrecker!

anyways no names where mentioned, it was on my profile..

anyways my ex sends me a long email about there is no respect, n that i should take it down,

basically defending his new girlfriend! (this is just 3 weeks after we have broken up but the affair had been going on for 6 months!)

would you remove the comments at their request? please help

Answer 1

Yes.  I would remove it...it shows no grace to leave it there and just makes you look bad.

Answer 2

have to see that comments

before judging  

Answer 3

nope. this is a free country and you can say whatever you please. she sounds like a s***k b**** anyways. i think if you take it down your basically saying hey sorry for calling you that. pssh.. no thanks. if they don't like it tell them not to look at it. it's that simple

Answer 4

Do you want to be on good terms with him? If so remove it but if you don't care what he thinks then just leave it and remove him from your friend list.  

Answer 5

I can see why you did this, but still.

This is why I say, they are not worth waisting your time on. The more you and they talk about it, you give warrant for their immoral justifications to cover their behinds.

The facts are simple: your Ex flunked the "Integrity Test" and he has no self control. The Tramp passed the "Vulgar Promiscuous Woman (w***e) Test."  

I would not remove the comment at their request, but I would remove it because I would not want gutter trash in my life. I'd admit I made a mistake, he fooled you, and move on. Really, haven't they have taken up too much of your valuable time already? If anything else is said, I'd simply say I, "...have nothing to say to them."

I say stay focused on the things that should be important. Continue after the goals already set to obtain a better life. Focus on bettering yourself and the ones you care about, and whether you know it or not, there is no better revenge than living well which really is success.

  

Good luck.

Answer 6

Keep it up and tell your ex to go an f__k himself.

Answer 7

I most certainly would NOT!  Keep it up there and ignore the tosser.

Answer 8

NoI wouldnt remove them, hes got a right nerve asnt he!!

Just delete him as your friend and make your profile personal then you and your real mates can properly sl~g this girl off...tutututut

your better off chic and anyways you didnt make the comment did you so its not yyour problem.

Answer 9

keep it

Answer 10

Yes I would.... it's your facebook - not his or hers .....

I understand that your friend is sort of 'sticking up' for you - but really you don't need to make your ex or his girlfriend look small to make yourself feel big .... your own self-respect should say you are better than this ..... if he left you for this other girl (and it's been going on for 6 months before that) then what's to say that he or she won't do the same to the other .... things do have a way of coming back round and biting you on the bum .... you don't need to do it - fate always makes sure that in the end people like them will get what they deserve..... in the meantime you just enjoy your life and forget they even exist.... they're not even a drop in the ocean of life.......

Answer 11

hahaha the man has NO rights!!! ...and you didn't write it yourself so you don't look so bad.

Nah it's great that it's there, I think. Leave it there.

Answer 12

you know what would really be the coup de gras for you!

  

  post his whiny email on facebook as well!

  that'll learn him!

  

Answer 13

its a tricky one.  if you look somewhere on the page there is actually some guidelines as to pictures.

Simply view the photo and click the "remove tag" link next to your name. It will no longer be linked to your profile.

Remember that you can only tag your friends. If you are having problems with someone constantly tagging you in embarrassing photos, just remove them as a friend (from the Friends page).

If you don't want the photo to be shown at all, please talk to the person who posted it. They should be respectful enough to remove unwanted photos. Unfortunately, Facebook CANNOT make people remove photos that do not violate our Terms of Use.

You can "report" any photo that you feel is offensive (a link is provided underneath the image). Facebook will monitor these complaints and remove photos as necessary. All reports will be kept confidential.

Inappropriate Content

While we believe users should be able to express themselves and their point of view, certain kinds of speech simply do not belong in a community like Facebook. Therefore, you may not post or share Content that:

is obscene, pornographic or sexually explicit

depicts graphic or gratuitous violence

makes threats of any kind or that intimidates, harasses, or bullies anyone

is derogatory, demeaning, malicious, defamatory, abusive, offensive or hateful

this is just some of the information on some of facebooks many help pages.  read through the information and decide for  as to whether you have broken any rules.  if someone just doesn't like the picture then thats tough but if you deliberately target someone then thats different.  its up to you to decide.  do forget that you can delete comment on your pictures and it might be wise to do that so as to not make the situation much worse. also, you say the picture is of yourself.  there is absolutely nothing wrong with taking picutures of yourself.   i personally believe

-delete the comment

-keep the pic

i hope this has helped in someway.

Answer 14

Tell him to *******