"Please don't say I look or act just like you. I need to acknowledge and celebrate our differences. "
Is it possible to celebrate the differences and the similarities? It seems as though many adoptees on here say they don't fit in because they are so different from their A-families. Sure they will be different, but isn't it possible to have things in common too? For instance my daughter LOVES water, just like I do. She loves to "fix" things just like her dad does. She also is extremely willful and stubborn ,like her half sister and how her bmom claims to be and has a strong interest in music like her b-mom as well. In this case, can't you have the best of both worlds?
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