Okay, my SIL and i were having a conversation today and i would love to get ur opinions.
i am an adoptive mother of 4 and she is a natural mother of 5. Do u think that birth parents who had there rights terminated b/c of abuse, neglect, drugs, etc. and whose children are now adopted should be given the option to "fight" for their children back?
I said no b/c for the "powers that be" to terminate rights the situation had to be pretty severe and that in most cases the parents have multiple oppurtunities to "straighten up". Also, atleast were i'm from, parents have ATLEAST 18 mo. to show that they are making a considerable effort to get there life together before rights are terminated. i feel that u cant just abandon ur kids for a couple years and then when they get settled into a new, healthy life just yank them back.
She says that i'm not a birth mother therefore i couldn't understand the bond of blood. That no matter what the birth parent should be given a chance.
What do u say?
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