A while before I was engaged my cousin and I were just daydreaming about my future wedding and she asked if she could be the maid of honor and I said ok. So now I acctually am engaged and told her she is the maid of honor because I felt obligated.
Anyway, she doesnt seem excited about it, or seem to care at all. My other bridesmaids call me all the time to help me plan stuff and they are doing everything she is supposed to do. I called her yesterday to tell her when we were going dress shopping and she didnt understand why she had to buy her own dress (they are not very expensive and I cant afford to buy 6 of them for eveyone) and then I mentioned a bridal shower and she was like "oh am I supposed to have something to do with that?"
I know I cant expect her to know what she is "suposed" to do, or expect her to do any of it, but shes not even asking or acting like she wants to be involved.
This is making me sad because I really would rather have my best friend be my maid of honor because she is acting like it acctually means something to her.
My mom said I should just tell her that I would rather have my friend do it. But I would feel like such an jerk. What should I do?
Please be nice in your answers I dont need you telling me how selfish I am, etc.
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