Cheating and evidence?

Question

I WAS having an affair a few months ago that lasted a few months. Well everytime after I would have these "sexual encounters" with this particular guy, I would soon find cigarettes stuffed down beside either the passenger or driver side door of my car. My husband and I don't smoke! Was the man I was cheating with purposely leaving behind evidence to get me in trouble??? And if so... WHY???

Answer 1

maybe hes leaving around evidence because he wants to break up ur marriage  and wants u all to himself?

be careful

Answer 2

of course he was maybe he wanted you to get caught but  you shouldnt have been cheating in the first place  so i guess it would have been funny if he found them

Answer 3

Sounds like it

If it was me i would have left evidence on your car seats or wipe off on your cloths.

Answer 4

Maybe or maybe not he wasnt trying to get you caught. You shouldn't even bother with it now and just make sure that you dont mess up the relationship you have wit you husband now since your not having an affiar since you ("was") were having one.

Answer 5

It's possible he accidentally dropped them there.  He may have also been madly in love with you and was trying to sabotage your marriage.  It's also possible he saw you as c u m bucket and your car as an ashtray.

Answer 6

why was he smoking in your car in the first place,

no affair

no fear of getting caught!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Maybe he just put them in the box because he didn't think he could use the ashtray and then forgot to take the box with him. It doesn't have to be on purpose this is the type of mistakes that lead to getting caught when you and the person you are messing with get to comfortable. Or like everyone else said it could be that he wanted your husband to find it so your husband would leave you.

Answer 8

Yes he was.

Answer 9

It's part of the turn on for him.  

Answer 10

Why are you worring about this now? Unless you are still seeing him.

Answer 11

you were cheating on your husband and your lover was stuffing WHAT in your box???

lmao, funny

Answer 12

Its possible your husband started smoking

Answer 13

Maybe he is jealous of your husband so he wanted to leave evidence so he would find out! Are you going to get a divorce or still keep cheating? What a worthless marriage.  

Answer 14

you are killin me!,,,of couse he was trying to get you busted,cause you are a babe and he wants you for his own,,quick ,,go have a s*x change,that'll teach him,

Answer 15

haha that's funny...I hope he was!

Answer 16

They fell out of is pocket!

Answer 17

Because he is the devil and wants you to pay for your sins. Good luck with that

Answer 18

sounds like it. Maybe he is hoping to break you two up so that he can pursue a longer term relationship?

Answer 19

Ask him.

Answer 20

Still have men problems, good stuff.

Answer 21

He may have wanted you to get caught because he probably wanted you for himself.  Men don't usually like to share their woman.  However, whenever someone cheats there is always a chance to get caught.

Just remember to always ask yourself this question:  "How would I feel if I just found out that my hubby had an affair?"  This could make you regret your behavior or it may make you re-evaluate your relationship with him.

Answer 22

You should get caught.

i hope your husband divorces you and get someone that has respect & morals about there self

Answer 23

simply because he has no moral ethics

Answer 24

Maybe he did. Maybe he didn't. Maybe your husbands lover did. LOL

Answer 25

Only weak losers smoke.

So there you have it:

1.  Weak

2.  Loser

Answer 26

Maybe he wanted your husband to leave you so he could have you.  Or, he could have just been trying to help Karma along.  Whatever his logic, it doesn't negate the wrong that was done.

Answer 27

Try asking the person you're cheating with.

Answer 28

because you deserve to be caught you cheating w h**e!