Cheating brother in law?

Question

i have just found out my sisters boyfriend is cheating on her she is 4 months pregnant and he is a control freak that has turnt her against all her family saying we dislike him an are trying to split them apart they have other children together do i tell her or try an catch him

Answer 1

BE a brother and beat his ***  

Answer 2

Unless you have absolute proof you shouldn't say anything . If you go on hear say then your information could be wrong and then that would only make the boyfriend sound right in saying that the family wants to break them up . It sounds like she is already in deep with him since they have kids so its possable she will be upset about it if it's true but ultimatly will put up with it any way . Tough call , she will either thank you or be really mad at you , rethink all the cosequences before you make a decision .

Answer 3

it up to u, but he's gonna deny it and tell her that u're tryin to turn her against him. sticky situation. if ur sis is the kind to believe her man over you, then don't tell her

Answer 4

Ok...which one is it? Is he your brother in law or is he is your sisters boyfriend?? If she is just he girlfriend, there is nothing so can do about his controling and cheating unless she leaves him. And if they are married, there is nothing she can do  about all of it unless she leaves and divorces him...Whether they are or aren't married, she has only once choice and that is to leave.

Answer 5

Don't say anything without solid proof!  If you can afford it, hire a private investigator or call cheaters..

Answer 6

Tell your sister and let her work it out from there.

Answer 7

This is hard because she just may not believe the family and just think the family is trying to defame him.

You also need to be sure that what you are seeing or hearing is the actual truth or that will just be worse for your family. She may need to hear this from someone else or see if for herself. In the meantime, I think the family needs to reach out to her in love and support and forget about the boyfriend and focus on the baby that she is carrying. In that way he will know he come between the family.