Cheating ? or IM CO COOO?

Question

i have these dreams of my husband cheating on me with his ex .. wich is my step sister , i never knew that they were involved until we got married .. me n her arnt very close .. also hiscousin is visiting andi had a dream that he cheated with her too .. WHY AM I HAVING THESE NIGHTMARES WHAT DO THEY MEAN

Answer 1

sounds obvious to me...he's cheating on you  and you need to to dump him.

Answer 2

okay So like go through his emails and texts like while hes in the shower and so like if he says stuff like ill be back late or working late or goin out with the guys he is suspicious if you find somethin kick him to the curb k thanks answer my question they are important and i need them soon thank you

Answer 3

These answers that say 'hes cheating on you' and 'go through his personal things' are jumping the gun a little.

These dreams are showing your fear of your husband cheating on you, but may have other causes. Ask yourself, have you been cheated on before? Or have you been let down alot by close people in the past? The answers to these questions could explain everything. They say that in dreams things don't always mean what they appear, ie your husband may just be a symbol for something else such as an insecurity not neccessarily to do with marraige, and these people who he cheats on in dream represent things that are agitating your insecurities.

Are you stressed out recently? Stress can cause you to dream of even more stressing things that are unrelated to what you are stressed about in real life, simply giving you more to stress about.

However, if you really do question your husband's loyality because of these dreams, my advice is do not invade his privacy by reading his emails and such, because this would cause a huge arguement. What you should do, is take the time to have maybe a little more 'close' time with your husband, a romantic meal out now and again or just watching a film together at the cinema or just on the couch together a bit more often. These things will bring you together and may well be the key to ending these dreams.

Hope I have helped

Answer 4

You are having these dreams bc of your own insecurities with your husband. You are afraid that maybe he will cheat on you or are hurt that he used to be involved with your step sister and you didn't even know about it until after you married him. Has he given you any reason to make you think he could be cheating on you? Maybe something else he is doing or isn't doing is making you feel this way. You feel like you can't trust him even with someone like his cousin. I think maybe you need to talk to him and tell him about your dreams and how much they've been bothering you. Dreams, I believe, can tell you more about yourself and your own emotions rather than tell what may actually be happening in real life.