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Cheerleading or dance..but they hate me?

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okay im a gymnast so im rly good at tumbling and at cheerleading all the girls hate me cause its my first year and im better than all of them and the coach treat me diff. and so idnt think i should do it cause im a flier and their gonna probally drop me on prepose..nd they only have a level 3 team and i cant do all my skills like fulls u can only do tucks..so i was thinkin of going back to dance but i havent done dancing in 2 years so i probally suck.....nd i dont wanna go to a diff cheering gym..what should i do..dance or cheering....nd im on a gymnastics team alreadyy..

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Keep cheering.

They hate you cause you're good :)
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cheerleading

who cares what they think?
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cheerleading

and they will not drop u

they dont hate u tht much and if they dropped you then your coach would most likely yell at them
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It doesn't matter if they hate you. You're good at what you do and the purpose in life is to be better than everyone else. As for your couch, if she's treating you differently, like if she likes you, then it's because she knows you have potential. However, if it's a bad thing that she's treating you differently then I think you need to change cheer squad. You're suppose to look up to your coach and she's not doing a great job at coaching then she's losing a big asset to her squad. You were born to dance, so if you want to go back to dancing, just go for it, two years is nothing. I went five years without dancing and now I'm a superstar. lol
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i would say cheerleading, but go to a competive cheer gym around your town, if you have one. they have level five where you can do it all && messing with jealous teenage girls isn't worth it AT ALL. believe me from personal experience. i was in the same boat (level 3 thing) and i stuck with it and i was miserable! so dont' go to dance. but try a all-star squad!

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Which ever you like the most.

Don't let those girls stop you because they're jealous.

Follow your heart.

Goood luck.
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Keep chearleading

and when you notice the other girls stuggling try help them (without being patronising)

don't let them make you quit, you deserve to stay.
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If people are going to treat you the way that you are being treated, it is mearly because they are jealous of you! Don't let others get you down. If your coach is treating you differently, you are better off going above their head and talking to a parent, or someone in charge of the facility at which you attend! As far as the other girls go... if they drop you, they can face criminal charges if you get hurt... be sure they understand that! Be sure that you assure them that you could care less about their additudes, and act more positive around them. Be who you are and say what you feel, because the people who mind dont matter, and the people who matter dont mind!
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well i dropped out of dance for 2 years and now i'm back and i'm sill good if no one likes u in cheerleading then go back to dance u wil still begood since u had practice with cheer!!
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As a cheerleader I say cheer your heart out....yea it hurts to have people hate you, but cheerings all about having fun and doing your best, dont you dare quit caz of them....watch you'll end up being loved by everyone!
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I would do what ever you like best and if the other cheerleaders are mean to you just keep in mind that they are just jealous.
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DO cheerleading

perosnally if i had a flyer who i didnt like i wouldnt do something like dropping them

thats really mean and dangerous.

and im a cheerleader, soo ahha yeah.

just tough it out for a few weeks they will realize your more of an advantage to the teamm then a problem & just be extra nice to themm. i mean your already doinng cheerleading, so why start something new again? that might even create a new problem if the dancers are jealous.

and lastly take there jealousy as a compliment! hahaha :P
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Just keep cheering and ignore them and if problems start to happen just go back to dancing you might suck in the beginning but you'll get the hang of it after a while or so. good luck!
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They're just jealous, if you quit it shows them that they won but if you keep doing it and being good just shows that you dont care what they think about.
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You should cheer. If they do drop you it shouldn't hurt that bad... [:
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As lame as this sounds, just follow your heart. What do you picture yourself doing that will make you happy and at the same time feel good about yourself? Don't let other people bring you down.....I kind of went through the same thing with dance and if I would have let all the other girl's comments get to me, then I wouldn't have gotten to where I am today. Chances are, they're just jealous (which means you're doing something right lol) so just try to be really sweet and and be yourself so they will see that you are a great person. Maybe even bake some cookies or brownies or something and bring them to practice to share with the team...I'm sure everything will work out!

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cheerleading!!!!they are jealous because you are beter
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who cares if they hate you. if you're good at it, do it... well. only if you like it. you should just do what you find fun. if youre great but everybody hates you, i don't think you'll have fun doing it any more. even if you suck at dance, if it's fun you can be a backup not the big part.
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do both

if u do cheer they will get over it

if u do dance they will help u
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girl please cheer your *** off!!!! dont let those girls make u stop what u do .. they need 2 learn from u **** maybe they can b better cheerers yourself ..a nd if u want to go dance go dance do them all if you want life is to short 2 worry about what those other hating girls think go do yah thing
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do whatever you WANT to do, whatever is more fun for you and you enjoy the most

if there is a problem of being really good and thats why they dont like you, be modest and try to feel as you arent better or worse than anyone else, dont brag.

i suggest doing the first one where you CAN do all the skill and if the coach thinks youre ready for it he will move you to the higher level... if i understood the question right

if you want to do dance just try to remember everything you learned if you already have experience that will help you start up again
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stick with cheerleading

they hate you because you're good

just get to know them and let them know you're personality

they won't drop you on purpose because they know that that's gonna hurt the whole team since you're good
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