Child Custody, what can I do to see my son b4 the court hearing, its not for another month and I can't wait

Question

My court date for my child custody hearing isn’t until the second week of September. My son is 5 months today and his mother and I are not Seeing Eye to eye. She mentioned to me that if I want to see my son, then the only way will be for me to take her to court. So today, I filed papers, but it won’t be for a whole month. And I really love my son and I can’t wait that long to see him. Is there something I can do, so I can have him sooner than that?

This girl had the audacity to hit me in the face when I was holding my son, which led me to call the cops several weeks ago, but she denied it to the officer. Plus, she is seeking child support, which I don’t mine paying, but she lied about the amount of money she made. She is just a liar, to me, the police, and herself.

What can I do, because I don’t want to miss out on another moment shared with my son? Every moment during his infancy is a special moment that I cherish. Oh yea, the officer mentioned to her that he cannot keep her from me, but she don’t seem to care because its already been over a week.

Answer 1

What a *****!  

Answer 2

It's so great that you love him that much. Have you talked to a lawyer? I know it costs a lot, but that is your best bet. They can advise you on everything and make sure you do nothing to make yourself look bad to the judge. They can also tell you how you can see your son, you know, with her not coopering and all it might be tough.

If worst comes to worst, stand outside her house and call the police. When they get there tell them she won't allow you to see your son and that's illegal. Then they can enforce everything.

Answer 3

DOCUMENT everything... calling her to see your son, going to her house, the police report (or non-report), etc..  Document all the reasons she gives you for not seeing your son.

Write her a NICE letter telling her that you would like to see your son every Tuesday and Thursday (or whatever) and every other weekend over-night.  Ask her to write you back (having her deny you in writing would be great evidence).  Be able to show the court good intentions.

GET a LAWYER.

Answer 4

you need to keep good records of everything and get a good lawyer.  Chances are you may even get custody .

She doesn't realize then when you go to court, the judge will not like the fact that she isn't letting you see your son.  That is illegal.  You have every right to see him whether you are paying child support or not.  

As far as her amounts she makes, they will ask for proof of her income as well as yours.  

Be patient, the judge will sort it out.