Child development class that i am taking??????????

Question

propose ways to help children adjust to the arrival of a new sibling!!!!

Answer 1

Definately avoid people giving most attention to the new arrival, as mentioned. Jealousy can be the biggest source of early-spawned sibling rivalries.

Also, tell them that they're officially a big boy/girl now because they'll have responsibilities as an older sibling. They have someone they get to take care of and have fun with. A lifelong (hopefully) friend. Let them do whatever possible to care for the child, and inform them about everything. Whatever you do, explain what you're doing and why. It will fascinate them.

Answer 2

Yes I had to face this problem once.  Make sure when baby arrives and you get visitors, they always speak to the eldest child FIRST and not go and coo over baby, as this is one thing that can lead to jealousy.  Ask the sibling to show the person their new baby, this encourages them to feel loved, accepted and part of the family and not isolated.

I'm sure you will do just fine.

Answer 3

Let them take part in setting up for the new baby.

Let them know they will  be a big sister or a big brother.

Basically, involved them in the decisions that you guys would make for the new baby so they wont feel so helpless.

Answer 4

WE give out sibling certificates to our new big brothers and sisters when a preschooler has a new baby at home - we ask the children for advice on how that child can be a good big brother or sister - we ask them to bring in a picture of the new baby.  

At home, let the child help as much as possible and be prepared for regression.  It's only normal and it won't last forever.  Humor them and allow them to feel just as special as the new sibling.