Child on Child Sexual Abuse!!!! PLS HELP!!!!?

Question

This is the deal: I have three daughters ages: 12, 10 & 4. I have a friend who has two daughters ages: 9 & 5. The other day she came over my house for lunch with her girls. They left and came back later on. My 4 yr. old start complaining that her "privates" hurt. She informed me that my friend's 5 yr old made her play doctor and she inserted a plastic knife into my daughter's v****a. I took my daughter to the doctor and she has a laceration on her labia. I am appalled and I feel like a victim as well. My little girl is a wreck! Does she have any rights? I called social services on my friend because I think there is abuse going on in her home. (her children are showing signs). Social services is doing nothing. Does my daughter have rights? Do we, as parents have rights? Has anyone gone through this before? I haven't slept in days.

Answer 1

Wow! I would definitely call the cops. Yes, you have rights...if nothing else you could file a complaint of suspected child abuse. Do it! Poor kids...and I hope your little girl is okay! Godbless!

Answer 2

Sorry but I would call the police because even tho she said it was the 5 yr old it could just as easily been the other daughter or one of the parents.You never know anymore. Even if it was the 5 yr old you still need to call the police because where the h**l were the parents when your daughters panties came off and her and her friend played "doctor" with a plastic knife. Who knows what else could have happened since evidentally the parents were not around.ITs this kind of parenting that makes children do the things they do these days. When they are that young they should at least be able to keep track of what they are doing during the day,let alone playing with plastic knives and playing doctor with them. All in all I would call the cops and let it go from there,becuase ifthe cops have reason to believe something is going on then sure enough CPS will get off their butts and do something about it,also do not let your baby go over there anymore.

Answer 3

Call police

Talk to your friend

Answer 4

Call the police this is unacceptable my prayers are with you and your daughter

Answer 5

Oh, wow.

I have gone through a VERY similar situation.

Except I WAS the victim.

And the exact thing with no one doing anything about it.

That was until I talked to the police about it.

That was when everything started to un-roll, and although it was a very stressful time, it was so releaving once justice hit.

Good luck with everything

It's all gonna be all right

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Answer 6

To be completely honest, I am more appaled at you than I am with the girl who supposedly stuck a knife down there. You didn't call social services on your FRIEND because you *THOUGHT* there was abuse going on, you did it in retaliation to this incident. If they were your FRIEND, you don't call Social services on them. Okay, she is 5 YRS OLD!!!! You see kids these ages doing weird stuff like this a lot.  She is a child. Where were YOU when all of this happened? Why was the child prone to having the utensil to do this? Why were the children not being watched? If you were WATCHING these children, this would have not happened.

Leave the children alone, the cut will heal. Next time watch the children. And you really shouldn't be calling social services on your friend because you THINK abuse is going on. It's not right. You could be wrecking someone's family just because you weren't responsible enough to watch the children when the incident occured. Don't tell me you think abuse is going on that's why you called SS, if this incident never happened, I guarantee you wouldn't of called social services.

Answer 7

omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! call the police. if that child is doing that it might mean thats wat her parents are doing to her.

Answer 8

My daughter went to a home daycare for all of two weeks, one day i dropped her off and she didn't want to go, I chalked it up as normal separation anxiety, but her behavior just seemed off to me.  I asked her that night why she didn't like to go to daycare and she told me that one of the other kids touches her.

I took her to the doctor the next morning immediately, during breakfast I asked her to tell me what happened again, it was the same story.  On the way to the doctors office I asked her again, same story.  The doctor asked her, same story.  The hospital social worker asked her, same story.  She was 3 at the time.  After an examination, nothing conclusive was found but the doctor and I agreed that her story would have changed at some point had she been lying.  Social services conducted an investigation in the daycare, nothing came of it.  It was the providers son who my daughter said did it.

When I called them that morning to let them know what had happened the provider had the nerve to tell me that this situation had made her day "just a wreck."  

I told her that she could keep her wrecked day to herself, because my 3 yr old daughter had just gotten finished with an invasive physical exam and basically an interrogation by 4 different people about what had been done to her, and as far as I was concerned she could take her wrecked day and shove it straight up her ***.