I have a 5 almost 6 year old child that I have become exceedingly concerned about his health because he weighs 5lbs more and is 2 inches taller than my 3year old son. I am also concerned about my 3year olds mental health. My 3year old seems to hate me when he comes back from his fathers, and tells me constantly he wants to be there for the 1st week he returns, yet my 5 year old shows quite a bit of distain towards his father, and says that he doesn't want to go back to see his dad and often cries. My ex shows quite a bit of animosity towards me because I have moved on with my life and he seems to blame me for the indignities in his. He yells at me to the extent to where I hang up on him.(don't know if that is relevant) I am not sure what to think and I am not going to ask my children because I don't want to coerse them and not get a straight answer. I am just majorly concerned about this and don't know what to do. If anyone has gone through this or may have any advice please help me.
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