I have twins (5 mos.) and their father doesnt take care of them. He used to watch them while I work but whenever he got mad at me for saying he needs to get a job so he can help provide for them, he wouldnt show up to get them in the mornings. I had to constantly call in at my job because of this. The last straw was last week when he left a message saying i dont appreciate what he does for me. I was forced to find a sitter, and have now incurred a daycare charge weekly. He doesnt work, he lives with his parents (he's 34), drives a car that they own, and has no cares in the world. His parents provide gas, and whatever else he needs. I filed for child support when the twins were 1 mo. because I knew he wouldnt take care of them. His sis and mother offered to pay for formula and diapers to get me from following through with child support. I never got anything from them. We go to court next week and I am nervous. I know they will make him get a job within 30 days. Has anyone gone through this?
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