Children////?

Question

tell me why my kids cry all the time in sted of telling me whats wrong there neally 4 years old twin girls help me please

Answer 1

I also have twin girls , mine are 7

Try telling them ,you will not listen to them until they stop crying and speak to you in a grownup voice.

Answer 2

My 10 year old daughter is the same way she can not tell us anything without turning on the tears and it drives us nuts.  We have started just telling her we cant understand her when she is whining or crying and if she wants us to hear what she is saying then she needs to actually talk.  Now if she comes to us whining or crying I tell her that and she regroups and starts over without all the drama.  They know that tears are the quickest way to get your attention and make it seem so important.

Answer 3

well most children cry because it gets mommy flustered and give in. other times children will cry because they want attention

or to get the other sibling in trouble.

Answer 4

have totally been there... and have NOT given said child what he/she wants until they stop crying/whining.  They are doing this all of the time b/c you are letting them.  You will have to make a rule that there is no whining allowed and have a punishment if they don't listen... if they aren't in PreK yet, maybe it would be good for all of you.  You get a break, and they learn that they have to communicate clearly as a life lesson... good luck.

Answer 5

coz dey could me scared to talk 2 u nd tell dere feelinz 2 u

Answer 6

Because your kids are whiny brats.

Answer 7

Do you interact with them all the time. Its important to just talk to your kids daily (make conversation) and they will start talking to you too

Answer 8

Some children don't know how to react when upset, and just cry. Talk to them and tell them it's okay for them to tell you what's wrong, and you'll help them.

In time they will.

Good luck.