Well, I believe me and my husband have had chlamydia for 2 years. Heres the thing, 2 months before i met my husband i had unprotected s*x and contacted stds, yes more then one. Got both treated and was told to come back 6 weeks later, only they didn't tell me it was to check on the other std and they didnt check on the chlamydia. There for I have no proof to believe my husband cheated on me, because when i met him, i made him get tested and he was clean. Ok that said, when I met my husband, i was firstly only sexually active for 1 year already! I didn't know much about the changes in discharge until a month after my ex broke up and i got tested.
*****Well once I started dating my husband, we fell madly in love and I got pregnant right away. Now when your pregnant you have discharge and I did, I assume it was normal. My stupid doctors in ny didnt test for stds while i was pregnant, apparently you have to ask! i didnt know, i assume they ran that test when they did swab me. I did go back to the doctors office 2 months after having a vaginal birth, they checked down there, again they didnt tell me that swab was not for stds! and i even got a paper in the mail saying my test was within normal limits, everythings ok? right? no. I went to plan parenthood 10months later, because i got new insureance, and plan parenhood tells me i had chlamydia. Now i have had discharge all this time, i thaught it was normal! I thaught my body was just changed. I dont feel like I knew what was not normal since i hadnt been sexually active so long.
****** That means me and my husband had this for 2 years. I've read up that it can do some major damage. I know I was blessed when I had my baby. That at least I had that chance of having my blood baby. They said that in my pap i had a little in flamation. Does that mean they would have seen if I had PID? and that I didnt. Do you guys think my husband and I still have a chance in having more children. The clinic keeps telling me that it would be rare that ive had it for 2 years without knowing, but i didnt know! and my husbands swears he didnt do anything, because he also knows that this could infact affect our son. And he knows its better to hear the truth then knowing our son was exsposed. I believe him, since i have no 100% proof to state my chlamydia, was fully ridden in the past. Advice please! If my chances are slim, would it be best once i get the all clear from the doctor, to try and see if we can have another baby? sooner is better? because if i dont concieve they can check? or would my insurance not cover them checking if i have scarring and does planparenthood check that??? and im only 21, im young im hoping my body did its best in this fight! I feel so depressed, so sad, so scared, and so sorry that i did this to my husband or even my son. The planparenhood says i have nothing to worry about my son, that if he had it i would have long detected it, im waiting to find out more on that when i take him to the doctor.
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