Choosing to be g*y is like choosing to have cancer!!! Why can't people see that?

Question

I'm sick of being told that I chose to be who I am. I'm sorry but do you know me? Do you know my name or my last name? Do you what I've done or where I've gone? No! Where do people get the right to judge me or anyone else like me? It makes me EXTREMELY DEPRESSED! I cry myself to sleep sometimes.

People know I'm g*y, and automatically they ASSUME I'm immoral and reckless. They assume I'm evil and diabolical. They hate me because I don't want to be with a woman.

I have plenty of morals and I live by everyone of them. I am not evil or diabolical! I go out of my way to be nice and I respect others and their privacy, especially straight men. I don't even find myself drawn to straight men, I certainly don't go out of my way to force myself on them, and I would seriously take my own life before I QUOTE "*** raped them" UNQUOTE!

Then there's the bible thumbers who act like homosexuality is the ONLY and the by far the WORST sin in the entire scripture! Well MOST bible thumbers, not all. They tell me I chose this, but what would they know? They don't know me or what goes on in my head. I did NOT choose this no matter what you say! You CAN NOT say that I did.

Why can't you people see that? What in the world would you possibly know? Nothing!

Answer 1

Be yourself, but don't you think that there are variations of homosexuality. Some people say they weren't always g*y, some say they were g*y now they're straight, and some say that they were born g*y, and some g**s actually say that they chose to be that way.

Answer 2

very very true

im glad u put your thoughts on here

i want people to think about this too.

im not g*y, but i have NO telorance for people who are prejudice.

you cant  CHOOSE to be a certain sexuality

im sure that if you had to choose you would choose to be straight because you wouldnt want people discriminating against you, or making fun of you and whatnot...

just know that there are SOME good people left in this world

=]

Answer 3

h**l yeah, boy!  I am straight but I support!  You don't choose.  You're either g*y, you're bi, or you're straight.  g*y people are NOT evil.  I am Christian but not a homophobic Bible Thumper, because I know God loves you regardless and I wanna thump not just a Bible but any heavy book all up in some homophobe's crotch!  HARD!!!!

I hate when people judge you when they don't know what's going on in your life and in your head.  Speaking from personal experience, I had people thinkin I was a spoiled whiny brat and/or PMSing, when they didn't know jacko about what I was going through and what I had to see.  Those judgers don't know what it's like to be g*y and they don't know what it's like to see someone else mourn for your dearly departed grandma and feel like you have to remain strong for them when you want to bawl, and they don't know what it's like to know that the guy you'd kill to be with is madly in love with someone else and doesn't even realize you exist, so those who judge can just SHUT THE **** UP!!!!!!!!!!  I've had to go through those last two, PLUS other ****, so I personally know what it's like to cry yourself to sleep, and ya know what?  It sucks!

Answer 4

Dude, I am one hundred percent on your side. I don't judge people because of their sexuality, I judge them based on getting to know them and what their personality is. I hate when people look at me funny because I have a L*****n friend, two bisexual friends and a g*y guy friend. Honestly I think I like hanging out with the people who are g*y because they don't like being judged, so they don't judge in that manner...

  I got my head bit off from my  cousin for forwarding a message about supporting g*y marriage, and that is when I decided I will never judge due to the s*x they like. It really made me angry too that she through in "Rachel, it specifically says in the bible that g*y is not right, It is a sin." Then how come we are not jumping down people's backs when they murder someone, gossip, commit adultery, and any other sin. Because too many people do that and would feel hypocritical. Everything will be okay. Who gives a flying f*ck what those people think, you can't choose to be g*y. Although some girls do to get attention from guys. :) Hope I made you feel better.

Answer 5

If your that miserable and unhappy with your "cancer",you shoud not have chosen to be a homosexual.

You have no one to blame but yourself.

We all make bad decisions.I'm sorry that one is causing you so much pain.

Answer 6

I'm going with first answer:whaat?