Christian pagan wedding?

Question

I'm a christian my hubby to be is pagan my family doesn't know and he wants to keep it that way cause my family will refuse to talk to me they are very jugemental and he belives its inportant to have family he is willing to have a tridional christian wedding but i want to tie in some of his belilfs in it is there a way to do this with out my family picking it up his family is pagan and i respect that i love him and want it to be his day not just mine we love eachother if anyone has any ideas i would apreach it. please only people who are tring to help reponds we don't need anyone telling us that the two belilfs don't mix i love him he loves me thats all that matters

Answer 1

 We had a similar issue with our wedding.  I am Pagan, he is Catholic.  We incorporated colors with a traditional wedding.  A Pagan wedding is normally in black and red...maybe black, white and red.  We used those colors.  We were going to participate in the hand fasting but it was a little too obvious.  I had a broom made and we "jumped over the broom" into our new life together as one soul. We passed it off as an old european tradition.  In order to escape the issue of having two weddings I had a Pagan minister.  Nobody knew and everything went perfectly! 

 

Best of luck and many blessing! :)