Christin help ples i really need help from christins

Question

Hey i have a felling for a guy i am a 14 year old boy i dont whanbt to brake what the bibal says what do i do ples help me. i whant to follow what the bibal says but i like a guy what do i do.

Answer 1

i know it must be difficult for you to have natural feelings towards someone but at the same time feel guilty for it.

you must understand that what you feel is completely natural and not let what anyone else say tell you otherwise.

i attend an all girls catholic school and this is one thing that i cannot agree with in the religion. i strongly believe that homosexuality is something that you are born with and not something one can develop.

while i dont know what your going through i can only imagine how difficult it must be as i have had male friends in the same situation.

they found that they had to go with their natural feelings and embraced them and they found that people respected them for that and for standing up for what they wanted in their lives.

to me, the principles of religion is to treat others as you would like to be treated- and everyone would like to be treated well, with fairness and dignity. dont let anyone take that away from you- do what comes naturally. there is nothing wrong with something that feels natural to you and dont let anyone say otherwise. the rest of the world is beginning to accept this (which is why g*y marriage is now legal in some US states) its about time religion wakes up to this fact.

stand up for your rights. just be happy, you are not hurting anyone.

Answer 2

God says learn how to spell!!

Answer 3

Do you like girls in any way? Maybe what you have is what they call a "man crush". Normal guys can love the ladies but have a certain guy they would do almost anything for because they think that guy is the greatest, kinda like an idol like a rock star or sports hero. Just give it time and don't jump into anything stupid you might regret later. You're only 14. Since you are a God worshipper, pray to him for help and strength. You can be friends with him, hang out and stuff but don't let your emotions blind you.

Answer 4

Pray to GOD for strength and wisdom in this situation. Go to your pastor/father/clergy and seek their counsel as well. They will help you find the wisdom and discernment that is needed for you.

You need to choose what to do, because (and I am sure I am going to have a lot of negative feedback for this one) love is a choice that you make alone, whether it is in your conscience or your subconscience, whether it is for one from the same gender or one from the opposite gender. Whether these are natural feelings or not is between you and GOD. Though I strongly believe that they are not "natural" feelings and homosexuality is not "natural" in the sense that people use the phrase because love is a choice. We choose to love our family, we choose to love GOD, we choose to love the people around us. Love is a choice no matter which way you slice it. You can't be born g*y, you have to be harboring the thoughts to "become" g*y. That is how Satan works, you think thoughts like these and he will grab onto them like a baby to candy and he will fester and weave these thought for you. This is why I understand why you don't just wake up one day with these feelings. It's because they have been festering in your subconscience for quite some time. This is also why I STRONGLY suggest going to see your pastor and praying and giving GOD these feelings and thoughts.

You could also be loving him as a brother and mistaking it for "falling in" love with him.