Classmates treat me badly. Why? Read details, please.

Question

The guys in my class have been treating me badly ever since I moved to the school I'm in now. They seem to think I'm boring and bad looking and not a week goes by without at least one of them reminding me of his opinion.

People from other classes and outside school are often surprised when I tell them about that problem because I'm social, friendly and nice. I would never insult others the way some of my classmates insult me.

So I wonder, why do you think I get that kind of treatment? Is it like a new trend for people to become bullies and try to ruin other people's confidence?

Answer 1

They bully you because they are a bunch of pricks and b*****s!

Answer 2

they probably like you

Answer 3

your the outsider,  it happens to everyone at first,

Answer 4

Ah maybe those people got abused in childhood or some emotional scars and when that is people become unsure about them selves and they do things that they would never do but i was in these horror when i was in younger classes like 5th 6th 7th but i was bullied from kinder garden to 6th grade and i stood up for my self and i just took on the problem.  

Answer 5

I bet they might either be jealous of your look or just are too stupid to keep their own opinion. It would be nice if everyone in the schools knew morale eh?

If I were you I would do either two things. An offensive or an easy way.

1) first, a guy comes to you and says his opinion. If it was me i'd probably say something in the way of "Your parents have learned you alot of behaviour. Eh?" But that's when you have anger issues, I use this now against SOME people. I asked them why they were bugging me at that age and most of them stopped bugging me. There was a few who still couldn't leave me alone so I just sticked with saying something like that.

2). Ask them why they're after you all the time, and then you should be able to get them to stop bugging you. Either that or you could tell them not to speak at all lol.

In my school, when I was 13, (now 17). It was actually COMMON to say things like "****". And some people in my age and in Denmark where I live still behave like that. I had just taken a shower and didn't watch my hair then this 16 year-old dumbass and says something like. "**** you're ugly". If I didn't know better i'd have smacked him down or something.

I wouldn't expect that the school has changed now... But what do I care? I'm outta that craphole now. :P

Good luck. Hope one of the solutions might come in handy.