Close relationship w/ parents. im a teen. i may b pregnant. how do i tell them???

Question

i have a really really close relationship with my parents. I'm a 15 year old girl that is scared. i may be pregnant. i have no idea how to tell them. cuz if i am then they may hate me. but if i am not they may not think of me as the same daughter they had. HELP!!!

Answer 1

Your dirty..keep your legs closed, geez your only 15..

Answer 2

find out if your pregnant if you are tell them if you arent i would just let it die and thank carma for your good luck.

Answer 3

get a test first, once u know u ARE, then tell them

Answer 4

well first off your parents will love you no matter what happens.

before you say anything to your parents get a pregnacy test to make sure...then if you are tell them the truth they will love you no matter what the outcome is they may be disappointed in you at first but they will eventually come around and support you in everything...you have built up trust with your parents...if your not and you tell them they may not think of you as the same daughter they had but one that has the courage to tell her parents the truth and not hide it...dont worry they wont hate.

Answer 5

Okay I think you should first find out if your pregnant and if your not just don't tell them.  If you are, then maybe you should explain to them that it was a mistake and your scared and you need them more than ever to support you.  Good luck. Please be careful you are so young, don't waste time with boys right now. You have whole life ahead of you and u should focus on school.

Answer 6

Not to be rude,but you should have thought about this before you slept happily with the guy.

Now for the tricky part,go and tell your mum first or dad whoever you are closer to,that you are pregnant,and ask them to tell the other partner.It'll be really hard for both of them of you tell them at the same time,divide it.All the best,hope you dont make such a mistake again.

Answer 7

They will probably get very mad, but you can't not tell them. There is no good way to tell them. You just have to spit it out. If I was you, I would wait until you were in a place were they couldn't yell at you. I know that is very cowardly, but at least it would give them time to think about what is happening before they react.  

Answer 8

They aren't going to hate you. They love you more than anything in the world and they aren't ever going to hate you no matter what you do. They may not think of you as the same person, but they will come through and they will always love you. It will be a shock for them, and they may be angry, scared, hurt, guilty...how would you feel if your child told you she might be pregnant? You have to talk to them at a time when they seem restful, don't tell them when everything is rushed. Say you need to talk, and it is very important. Tell them that you think you might be pregnant, and answer all the questions they ask you. Ask them to help you find out if you are pregnant. I hope they come through and everything turns out all right!!

Answer 9

Didn't you see the movie Juno? Just tell them.

Answer 10

Ok first find out for sure if you are.

For just a few dollars (or pounds) you can buy a home pregnancy test kit. They can be bought at a drug store or pharmacy. Follow the directions. If the test says negative - you should retest in a week or 10 days to be absolutely sure. If it says positive - you are pregnant.

You can also go to a doctor but you risk them telling your parents the results.

There  is no sense in telling your Mom and Dad unless you know for sure.

If it is negative and you retest and still negative then -- get on birth control. This is the talk you should have with your Mother. Use condoms and take your pills then you would have much less to worry about.

Answer 11

Trust me.. it's not as bad as it seems. Just tell them. They won't hate you I'm sure. What is it going to change? If you are pregnant then you just are. Most parents are very understanding.. even though they may be disappointed depending on how they feel about that sort of thing.

They know you are going to make mistakes.. just learn from them.

Just own up to it. If you are pregnant, take responsibility. They'll appreciate that decision.  

Answer 12

well there is no way to really "beat around the bush" about it you know..it is not like there is a good or light way to say it so you will just have to say it..that is what happens when you have s*x and are not smart en ought to get on birth control and use condoms..they will not hate you that is mostly impossible for a parent to hate their child.and no they will not think of you th same..they probably feel they raised you smarter than that but as i said they will always love you they will help you figure out the next step either keeping your baby or adoption

good luck

Answer 13

You dont know for sure if they well look at

you diffrently but they will no for sure taht you trust them b/c

your coming to them about this,,also you will definently need some one to go thru this with and your parents are the best ones.