Clothes?????

Question

so my bff is really nice most of the time.but sometimes i come to school and she says mean things about what i wear i dont wear ugly stuff becouse about 5 girls said they liked my shirt. but my bff gangs up with her other friends and they tell me how bad/good i look depending on what i am wearing but i hate their comments when i am not wearing their favorite how do i tell them to leave me alone about my clothes cause its kind of mean but i dont think they know that.

Answer 1

well shes not really a god friend if she does that to you

Answer 2

i think they are jealous. you dont need to ask this if you really know your friends.

Answer 3

There are many ways to handle a situation like that

you can stick up for yourself- tell them that is their oppinion and to laeve it to themselves you really don't want to hear it and it is mean

you can ignore them

you can insult them back though I really do not recomend this

Answer 4

Friends don't make fun of friends.

She isn't your friend you need to stay away from her and her friends she isn't nice at all!!!

Answer 5

That isn't you best friend...

Friends don't go off making fun of you

My friend Liza and me are the best of friends we live really close to each other last time i can remember was the happy moment with me and her was when we went to Hot Topic, Claries, buy a ice cream at Haggan Daaz, Hollister and we went to Forever 21. We LOL all the time do u do that? Do u guys buy each other stuff and have sleepovers? If you dont she is nt you Bff

Answer 6

If she really cares about you and being your friend if you kindly ask her to stop making those comments she will. If she doesn't then she isn't really your friend. in the end jsut wear what you like and surround yourself with people who are nice to you and don't care what you wear. Good luck!

Answer 7

Ask yourself the question:  Is the person really my best friend?  If she is putting you down (emotionally as indicated by the diction that you used), then perhaps you shouldn't really hang out with that friend as much anymore since she doesn't appreciate the fact that you have befriended her and value her as a highly important one.

A real best friend would not put you down... especially over something as silly as the clothes you wear.  She has to realize that its your life and the clothes you chose reflects your style and no one should be able to influence that.

If you insist on revenge then perhaps the next time she/they make fun, you can tell them "at least I didn't purchase it at value village" although you would be putting yourself down to their level.

Answer 8

I don't mean to hurt your feelings, but this is NOT your best friend.  People that care about you don't make fun of you.  Also, they know exactly what they're doing. Be more choosey about the people you hang out with. Have self confidence. You're OK. They're messed up.

Answer 9

Hello, this is something that I am (unfortunately) very familiar with.  I have a friend that also does/says similar things to me.  I think that it's because these "friends" don't feel good about themselves.  Sometimes people need to put "others" down to feel good about themselves.  If you asked her for her honest opinion, and she said something (like)... "it's not my favorite... " (I like you in red... or jeans... or black)...or if she said... "that shirt you wore last week, you looked hott".  I could understand, but to (just randomly) say it looks ugly... this is a tell tale sign that she doesn't like herself.. Good luck to (both of you).

Answer 10

sounds like your bff is JEALOUS!!!!! i think you should look for someone else to hang out with. i know it is WAY easier said then done, but you will be way happier when you look back. good luck!