College HELP??????????

Question

College HELP?

Well, I just started year 9, and im a totally loser at my school, and I only have one friend (who, is the WORST ‘best’ friend ever) and she ditches me with every chance she gets, and she said I have friends that are coming up to the same college from a different high school, and because she usually dumps me, she will leave alone in the college, and obviously, if you have not already guessed, im pretty depressed, and whatever, and im pretty much friendless, but I deal with it, whatever.

But my question is..

What should I do, if she ditchs me while im in college and I don’t know anyone?

Answer 1

College is so different from high school.  There are so many freshman who will be in the same boat as you.  They won't know anyone and will be starting off fresh.  You'll meet people in classes, dorms, clubs etc.  So you won't have any problems meeting new people and making friends.  Believe me.  

Answer 2

college is a more grown up enviroment than high school. you will find that there is less bitchiness going on. this girl who makes out shes your friend really isnt. you could do so much better than this girl. i know its really hard to go up to people and start a conversation especially if you are shy or you dont have much confidence . usually at college they have loads of clubs that you can join why not find out from a teacher whats going on and choose something that you enjoy. you will then find like minded people who you share something in common with. then you will be the one to dump this nasty girl. good luck xxxx

Answer 3

Don't worry about it and just try to find another friend.There is always room for new frends

Ditch her like she dichs you

Answer 4

So are you already in college? Or are you talking about when you go to college in the future. I think by year 9 you meant 9th grade? The great thing about going to college is you can start new. The jerky people you knew in high school may not be at the same college as you and you can meet new people in college and make new friends. In fact you could go far away for college and not go to the same college as anyone you know now. If you really think this "friend" is going to keep dumping you and leaving you behind, you may want to get some new friends. She doesn't sound like she is worth it. A lot of people in college do not know anyone when they first get there. When you get to college you can talk to people in your classes, join study groups, clubs, organizations on campus and make new friends. I hope this helps.

Answer 5

Remember you're not in college to make friends, you are there to get an education and a good one at that. School friends most times are a menace that could get you off track. I never got along with people at school and whenever it got me down, I would say to myself "I am not here to make friends."