I am a freshman in college and have been in the dorm for 2 days now with two other roommates. It is a room meant for two (a "forced triple"), so naturally there isn't going to be a lot of room. The trouble is is that we are all the sort who prefer to retire to our room - while this may have worked at home, at college it results in a very quiet, awkward space. My roommate "Bob" stays in the room all day and only leaves to go to class. He takes all of his meals in the room, has no friends, and it is really bothersome. I feel that it is unfair that I have to walk all the way to the library for that basic human need for a little solitary time, while he constantly gets the room to himself and refuses to make an effort or even show signs of social awareness. I can't tell him that he needs to leave during some hours unlike basic house rules; what do I do? Am I overreacting and am still in the breaking in process of college life or is this guy really a nuisance?
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