I have a little dilemma. I got accepted to two very good schools, the University of Minnesota, and the University of St. Thomas, a private school in Minnesota.
They're both my two top schools, and I love them both. I could not go wrong with either decision.
However, my parents insist on not letting me choose one. They like to be very involved in the decision making process, and they are paying for almost all of it. If I went to the U of M, they would pay for all of it.
(I am enrolled at both, and registered for classes at both, and have roommates and a room at both)
When I tried to pick one, at first I thought, the U of M, that'll be good. They didn't like that. They said St. Thomas was a great school, and made me look at it again, and convinced me that it was the right choice. So finally, I decided that school was better for me, and it was where I wanted to go.
Now though, they are saying they think it's really expensive and dont know if I should go there because I'll owe money coming out of there, whereas at the U I would not. So now I can't pick that one either.
Its like i cant pick one or the other!! I'm so frustrated..I talked to the roommate at st thomas (i love her by the way..she seems so much fun. the U roommate doesnt have a facebook or anything), and keep telling her I'm going there, and now i'm not, and now i am..... its kind of embarrassing, and frustrating, and annoying all at the same time.
My school(s) start in like 2 weeks. I dont know what to do!! People ask where I'm going, and I still say I dont know. My parents go back and forth and just irritate me and wont decide no matter how many times I stress it needs to be decided. NOW.
It should be my decision, it's my future, my life. But they're paying so they insist it is as much their decision as it is mine.
I am just at a loss at this point. Its suffocating, and I just dont know what to do anymore.
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