College scenario... what would you do ... fun scenario... I will tell you what I did later?

Question

I graduated from college 2 years ago but these are scenarios I have been through or knew friends who have been through them... so read them and tell me what you would have did and I will tell you what actually happened in the scenario

scenario 1

two friends go off to two different college... and both graduate one is well educated and speaks as if she/he is educated... the other talks as if he never attend college nor graduate and he doesnt have a job... should we blame colleges for the personality and the behavior of college graduates

Scenario 2... we have a girl whose in college age 19 (sophomore)... parents are overprotective... infact she couldnt date period while she was growing up and her parent never talked about s*x.... when she gets sick.... the parents want her to come home.... they would call her to see where she is every 20 minutes... now that shes 2 hours away.... they think thats far.... anyways shes been dating a guy for a couple of weeks and because of her and shes buck wild... shes not answering her cell phone because she's partying... anyways her and the guy has had s*x and she just found out she was pregnant... and doesnt want to tell her parents..... who's fault is this...is it the parents fault for being overprotective or her fault for not taking precautions... should she have the baby or have an abortion and maintain her shy... overprotective personality and tell her parents she was too busy with classwork to answer the phone?

Scenario 3

A boy just started college three weeks ago his mother is a teacher and his father is a pastor who loves his BOY.... when he's around campus he's cool walking around all coupled up with girls but in the evening he secretly at guys houses and chatting on g*y sites... only he knows about his g*y lifestyle... and he knows if his family finds out his life will crash on him... so should he tell his family... or continue his lifestyle being a lover of girls in the morning and a guy lover at night?

Scenario4

two girls have a dorm room together Lala and Monique.. they are friends...not close but hey who are in college?... they know how to adjust being in the room together... anywho...2 months after being in college Lala is dating a guy name chase that is 20 years older than her but he's in college(late bloomer)... Monique dont know about this guy but in her gut she doesnt like him for her friend Lala... but she doesnt tell her...when Monique come back to her dorm on break Chase is there... sometime alone in Lala's bed or in the room with Lala... usually Lala would immediatly leave the room and go to the library she would be mad due to the fact that she would want peace and could never come to her room and get it (in college guys dont suppose to spend the night so LaLa was breaking rules) one night Monique decided she would sleep longer due to the fact she didnt have to go to school early so she got some sleep a long nice rest.... she heard the door open but thought it was her room mate coming in after a party... after 30 minutes she felt someone naked on her...groping on her... it was chase... saying she knew she wanted him... and he liked her and wanted to be with her while he was trying to force her to have s*x with him... she screamed and faught back....the next day she saw him walking with monique he winked at Monique as if nothing happened...should she tell the R.A. or director what happend and that Monique broke curfew and rules by letting chase in after hours and giving him the key to their dorm? or tell LaLA what occured? or Leave the school and attend another school? or Say nothing?

Answer 1

I read it but I honestly have no idea what happened after each one. But I would like to know....you should tell us what happened soon!

Answer 2

too long to read, sorry

Answer 3

Woah there. That's a mouthful. Anyways. This is what I would have done.

Situation One: There is a reason why better schools accept better students and vice versa for worse schools. We shouldn't blame the colleges because its the students own fault for whatever outcome they choose in life. The college only helps make that happen; good or bad.

Situation Two: Both of their faults. Overprotective parents are an appetite for disaster when it comes to kids going to college. But its the girl's responsibility to make sure she is informed, no matter how over protective her parents were, she had the recources to go and get herself educated. I'm pro choice, so I think getting an abortion would be the best shot because there is no way someone in college can take care of a child as they are just a child themselves.

Situation Three: This is a tricky one because the boy's life could be at risk. I knew a kid who came out to his father who was a high ranking official in the Army and his father threatened to kill him if he didn't leave his house. He should wait a little bit until he has his life set up and his life planned out and then he should come out. Or he could come out straight away to his parents, warning them, saying something along the lines of, "I know its not a subject you all understand, but please respect me in my choice, its still me and please love me for who I am."

Situation Four: That is sexual harrasment right then and there. I would go to the police and file a repot as well as I would tell Lala right then and there. Because if Chase does that to Monique, then he may be even more capable of doing terrible things to Lala. I wouldn't change schools but I would definetly change dorms.