Coming out to mom, again?

Question

Okay, I came out of the closet at fifteen and let me tell you, it was not easy. For the past three years I've had to fight for my status as a L*****n because...I'm too feminine. I was too interested in boys as a child. And, yeah, maybe that does make it a little weird, but gee, I couldn't help what I did as a child! Anyways, I'm starting to get considered as a L*****n by my parentals. The only problem with it is...well, I like a guy. Don't get me wrong..I still identify as q***r but this guy is trans. And I have a feeling I'll end up giving myself away. I've already referred to him by his male name once. How in the world am I going to tell my mom that, yes I do prefer women, but I'm okay dating transmen too?

Answer 1

why do you have to explain it to your mother? you're having difficulty explaining it to your self. why bother? just live.

Answer 2

You don't need to tell her anything.

Unless she asks the direct question, just don't worry about telling her

Answer 3

you are grown. what mommy doesnt know wont hurt her

Answer 4

The only thing i can suggest is try explaining to ur parents that sexuality is not up and down or left and right its much more complicated than that....tell them that although you do identify yourself as a L*****n you have no control over who you fall for, love is blind  

Answer 5

Do you hear yourself???!!!  You sound absolutely confused and chaotic.  Wow.

To answer your question, I have no idea what you could possibly say to your mother that would give her any semblance of satisfaction, peace or joy regarding your choices.

Again, wow.

Answer 6

do what you think is best for you

if you want to tell ur parents tell them if not then dont

its a hard situation ur in but talking may help you out whats happening

follow what your heart says

even though its on the left side its always right ;)