Comparison with my co-sister by my inlaws?

Question

i treat my in laws well..when i say well..i treat them with lot of respect and do everything for them as needed.. but they never seem to appreciate me for anything.leave the appreciation ..atleast they need not insult me or compare me right?iam the elder dau-in-lawfor eg:seeing some snaps of me and my co - sister together my mominlaw was like"god!! ur co-sister is gorgeous and she has a wonderful smile..but why is ur hairstyle so bad and u have an oily face?"..another instance...we both r good artists.when i showed m

Answer 1

I strongly agree with Guest2848. Your MIL is just playing mind games, divide and rule policy! And please don't even think of telling your husband about all this mess. He won't like bitching about his mother. I know that its frustrating, but you would need to calm down yourself and control your emotions. Or try this, give your MIL some cash every month, it will definitely make her think twice before insulting you again.