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Question

So my boyfriend was fingering me and he really sucked at it... how do I tell him to stop with out being rude? I mean I really like him but come on... seriously worse thing I have ever felt!

Answer 1

what is a 16year old doing getting finger banged anyway..just tell him that it hurts

Answer 2

jus tell him that he is making u wanna p**s, or say that hurts

Answer 3

Fall asleep.

Answer 4

Jus tell him that you dont like it. dont be mean tho. trust its that easy. If he gets offended you'll know he has problems

Answer 5

When he starts "fingering" you again..

hold his hand. :)

it's not rude and it's romantic! :)

problem solved!

I am sure he won't mind you holding hands.

Answer 6

Find an online lesson on fingering and and send it to him anonymously.  He'll get better and youwont have to be rude.

Answer 7

Tell him you don't like it and if hes gonna do it he has to do it properly. How old are you guys?

Answer 8

tell him   don't rough handle the merchanise or he will be asked to leave the store.....ask him does he wanna a hammer on the jewels

Answer 9

I would gently have a discussion with him, telling him that his fingering technique is not satisfy you. Then go on to show him how you would prefer to be fingered.

In any intimate relationship-communication is the key- this guy is not a mind reader and for you to expect him to be is unrealistic. Communicate with him and show him. Good Luck