Concerned about underaged s*x!?

Question

so im still young....bout 14........but i met this wonderful girl...who's cute.smartevreything about her is perect..well we were sitting in the movies..and well she brought up a conversation about s*x..she says she's ready and we should go for it...but im still not sure...im way to young..but i dont want to dissapoint her...and welll..its not like i have'nt thought about it

Answer 1

do it when u feel the time is right.

also, im 18. so i know everything tht goes on in your age.

so I KNOW THIS GIRL IS GUNNA REGRET THIS WHEN SHES OLDER

shes not ready. i know it. shes not educated enough & there will be regret. trust

Answer 2

dont do it man.

im 15 so listen up

wait a while and if your still together (which you will be if shes as lovely as youv said) and BOTH happy to do it then think about it. dont get rushed into anything. and if she is only after s*x youl be proper gutted if she leaves you after doing it because then youl have wasted your viginity on somebody who didnt deserve it. wait mate

Answer 3

okay well to start off, i'm a teen too, so i'm not just being a negative adult.

i think that you should do what you feel comfortable with. if you don't feel ready, then you shouldn't do it. and if she's the right girl, and if she loves you, then she wont mind waiting.

also, s*x isn't always the most fun thing to do. there are plenty of other unclothed sexual things you can do that are less risky (no pregnancy or std).  Messing around (blow jobs and hand jobs for the guy AND the girl) are a fun way to explore each other's sexual likes and dislikes without actually having s*x.

Good Luck!

Answer 4

You both are two young. Wait a few years until you both are mature and won't have any regrets. Tell her you're not ready and that you'd like to wait a little bit longer. You shouldn't be worried about disappointing her. This is about you also. She should understand. If she doesn't, then she's definitely not worth it.

Answer 5

Just tell her that you think you should wait a while, see how things go. If shes as smart as you say she is, she'll understand.

Answer 6

From one teen to another- Don't do something that you and she will regret later in life. Think about the consequences. Teen pregnany could ruin her life as well as yours.

s*x is not what a relationship should be about. s*x symbolizes a serious commitment.

Answer 7

You are too young. Not because of your age, but because you are smart enough to realize that you are not ready. Be honest with her. Tell her you really like her but also respect her enough to wait for a while. Tell her that you want to date her but want to take it slow. She will understand. If she doesn't, then she is bad news and not worth your time. Good luck and be proud of yourself for your values.  

Answer 8

I tell you, teenage pregnancy is the last thing you wanna have