Concerned parent?

Question

Last night i walked in on my 12 year old son watching both g*y and straight p**n and I am wondering if he is g*y. Should I be worried?

Answer 1

was it 2 men p**n? i wouldn't worry too much, first of all he is 12 so he is probably just curious. all kids go thru a curious stage. mine was when i was about 10-11 yrs old.

being g*y is nothing that he could control so even if he was there is nothing you can do about it. just love him no matter what.

if you are concerned ask him about it.

i have looked at things (weird p**n stuff) online just because i wanted to see it! doesn't mean i like it at all.

Answer 2

At 12 probably curiosity.

Answer 3

Before you wonder and worry about your son's sexuality, talk to him first. Open up the s*x and sexuality subject to him and open up the communication doors to him about this subject matter. He is entering adolescence and should be guided by parents about s*x and sexuality.

Answer 4

g*y or straight p**n- it doesn't matter. I can't believe you're more focused on WHAT TYPE of p**n he was watching rather than the fact he had his hands on something like that anyways!

I think you should have a talk with him about relationships in general and respecting the opposite s*x....

If you show any interest in the fact that he was watching g*y p**n in particular it'll not only be horribly embarassing for him and confusing as well-- ignore that detail to save yourselves for now.

If your son is g*y he will eventually tell you on his own when he is sure and old enough- at the age of 12 your son probably has no idea of what he feels and is only acting out of curiosity.

Answer 5

well i think before u start worrying since he knows what it all is you should bring him and sit down and have an open conversation with him let him ask u things and u ask him things and that will be the best way to find out

Answer 6

Nope, he's 12. He is going to explore because he is curious. Why would you be worried about him being g*y? You're his parent & you'll love him anyway ~ g*y Straight or Bi. Don't make a huge deal out of "catching him in the act" ~ you'll just embarrass him into a shell where he'll think that all sexual things are dirty & he'll not feel comfortable coming to you when he should or needs to. But you need to adjust the setting on your computer & let him know that you don't approve of any type of p**n being viewed in your home (right?)

Answer 7

Well was it g*y women or g*y men, if g*y men then he may be curious or possibly g*y, time to have a very long and detailed chat with him, and be warm and not hostile.