Concided thoughtts.?

Question

So ive been told since like 7th grade. i was more developed then most girls then i hang out with. and i just got done with my freshmen year in highschool. and not until 9th grade have i REALLY been noticing all the attention i get from boys., and how some girls are jealous of mee. im not very self-confident because ive been made of it constantly from my family. im the only girl and have 5 brothers. so i got made of it. A LOT.! but lately ive found myself thinking very coincided things. and quite honestly. its scaring me. i dont say it. and i dont act it. i just think about it. like if i got to the mall. or even something simple like going to the gas station to get a slurpie. if theres another girl there around me age. i immediately compare her to me. and how much i think i look better then her. i dunno. is that okayy? as long as i just think it in my head. and not say it out loud. or start acting like a totalll b!tchh.?

this is like really the first time ive done anything like thisss.

whatss wrongg with mee.!!!!! :O

Answer 1

I think the word you're looking for is CONCEITED, not COINCIDED. It's probably just a phase you're going through. I don't understand what you mean about "being made of it,"  unless you mean being made fun of. Regardless, it might be a good thing that you aren't too confident about yourself; it might keep you humble. Don't forget, you're not responsible for the way you look or how well developed or pretty you are, so don't take credit for it. Compare yourself all you want with other girls, but remember they're aren't responsible for how they look either. Please don't turn into a total ***** -as you put it- for people learn quickly that looks are fleeting. You can be as beautiful as you want, but if you adopt a "I'm better than you" attitude, you'll find yourself all alone some day.

If you really want to do something about those thoughts that pop in your head, from now on, whenever you find yourself comparing yourself to another girl, find ONE thing you like about the way she looks, and COMPLIMENT her. That just might keep you human.